xpinkladyx Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 (edited) Hey guys im new here, please be easy with me about my situation Okay, i find myself recently single, me and my ex are having to share the house...and ive met somebody else - well i actually met them before i split with my ex and well i decided to split up with my ex after years of neglect and him being emotionally abusive, anyways we have got to remain in the same house for the sake of our child....for now, im getting some help to try and get us out atm! Anyways back to this guy, he is cute, funny everything a girl could dream of he is very kind and very gentle we have already slept together - we were drunk...and no excuses i guess but from that night onwards, all we have done is text, and we have met up 3 more times....the last time being Saturday and i stayed over at his (ex and little boy go away at the weekends), it was obvious he wanted to have sex, but i kept him waiting, and we didn't he didnt get uptight about it, and we just cuddled and kissed until i had to leave the next morning Now he has been texting me okay since then, he tells me what he is upto etc and that he wants to take me out for a meal, always wants to know im okay etc It feels like we have known each other years...and we have a really strong connection - we met in May 2010 - hit it off at the party we met at but never really spoke until we were at another party together in november 2010 - i added him on facebook and had a few drunken phone calls etc Now....i would like to think once i move away from my ex we're going to be a couple and live happily ever after, i would LOVE to think that, but im honest, i dont and i believe he just wants me to be "friends with benefits" ive never asked him how he feels - when we were in bed on saturday night he said he spelt something out on my back, and when i asked him what he said id actually better not say......confusion much!! Saturday night, he text me and came to meet me in town, took me back to his place and then we went straight to bed....it felt like a booty call Part of me thinks he genuinely likes me, other thinks hes messing me around i also feel its too soon to actually ask him, thats how im going to get my answer!! I wish i knew what to think! xxxx Edited January 18, 2011 by xpinkladyx
Ella whispers Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 Wait until you love yourself and don't believe the things that your ex told you. Be the better person.
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