JRoy Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 Yes, I did. I am sorry now. I was 'sorry' while doing the worst thing you can do to another human.
on1wheel Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 I went nuts when I found out, as while she was F'ng around I was @ home looking after our 18 month old baby. I hired a PI to prove what I already knew in my heart. Then I hired a computer genious who had no love for cheaters and between the 2 I knew waaaay more than most BS's do. Then I went to the bank & emptied out our "fun account", locked her out of the laptop, called the cops to find out what I could do since she was driving "MY" truck, wrote an anonomous letter to the CEO of her security company (CC'd everyone in her company directory) as they worked together and she had just recently gotten him a promotion supposedly based on her impartial opinion. The letter told of all of the inappropriated actions @ work or on work time. Office romances were frowned upon, but it was her poor judgement and the threat of the companies records being subpoenaed that got them both fired. Then I called the guy, told him I knew, told him I was coming to his house (address provided by the PI as well as his wife's name) and that I would make sure his ex-cop wife had all the print outs of their emails back and forth on company email, where they went to have sex, times/dates of where he really was when he told her he was working etc, etc. Then I told him that if I ever saw him that he should dial 911, as I would not be responsible for what I may do. I am a fighter by nature and often times as part of my profession, so you don't have to be Einstein to predict what would happen. Then I told my W that she was going to tell me EVERYTHING, as I knew much more than she thought I did. Her honesty now after all of the horrible lies would dictate how pleasant our custody battle would go. She wa completely honest as she could be, at least in regards to the info I already knew. I lost 30+ lbs in 30 days, hardly slept, was an emotional wreck and it is now 3 yrs to the day of my D-dau and I have never recovered!!! I was totally betrayed, treated like S*IT and know that I will suffer til' the day I die. I have tried therapy, read a ton of books, been on many forums...nothing has helped. I guess I am just one of those people that can't get past a serious trauma. I am broken inside. Anyway, not to get too gloomy here. Not sure if my story qualifies as getting or doing crazy things after D-day. Sorry if there are typo's etc, as I'm on my BlackBerry which is hard to preview what I've written.
HalfAlive22 Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 I initially only found out about the OW he was with at that time, and I called her and told her how to sexually satisfy my H! I know right? I told her all the crazy thing we did in bed, and if she could'nt do it get out now! she was a little shocked (of course she thought we never had sex), then I stopped eating lost 20 pounds...hospitalized twice, went through all my H e-mails and Fbook. he worked the nigh shift, and I would call him in the middle of the night threatening suicide...yes not my best days
tinktronik Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 This thread is making me remember things. I took his laundry and dropped it off at their work, with his OW, and told her she could do it from now on. 4
HalfAlive22 Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 This thread is making me remember things. I took his laundry and dropped it off at their work, with his OW, and told her she could do it from now on. lol! too funny!
What_Next Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 OK, this entire series is hysterical!!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2DIHc5EpsVA&feature=related :lmao: Sorry for the thread jack, but this series is bloody funny.
PortuguesePrincess80 Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 Hahaha..love this thread! Most memorable was him walking in and getting a sucker punch right to the face! Quite shocking for us both to say the least! Lots of other broken things..including a tv which I regret! The punch..nah..I don't regret that! The BS Diet of course...lol Should be the bull***** diet
tinktronik Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 And I keyed his car, our car legally since we were married. Okay maybe I was a bit bat**** crazy. I was also 4 weeks postpartum when this affair came to light. Not an excuse... okay, an excuse. Oh memories! It was like his 6th (known) affair though and the girl was calling threatening me and coming to my house to hang around my children and f*** my H in our bed whenever I was out of the home for even a few minutes and then even when I was home. I threatened to drag our bed into the yard and set it on fire if my exH did not get it the f*** out of our house. I had the locks changed, ordered everyone I knew pizzas and bouquets of flowers on his personal credit card, broke his coffee cup collection, discarded every precious childhood memento of his I came across that was out of place, got so mad I threw pancake batter at him (it is impossible to get pancake batter off of walls BTW) and then I moved out with the kids--- only to have him show up in my new house after he moved in while I was at work. I was over the craziness by that point and just wanted him gone.
bentnotbroken Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 And I keyed his car, our car legally since we were married. Okay maybe I was a bit bat**** crazy. I was also 4 weeks postpartum when this affair came to light. Not an excuse... okay, an excuse. Oh memories! It was like his 6th (known) affair though and the girl was calling threatening me and coming to my house to hang around my children and f*** my H in our bed whenever I was out of the home for even a few minutes and then even when I was home. I threatened to drag our bed into the yard and set it on fire if my exH did not get it the f*** out of our house. I had the locks changed, ordered everyone I knew pizzas and bouquets of flowers on his personal credit card, broke his coffee cup collection, discarded every precious childhood memento of his I came across that was out of place, got so mad I threw pancake batter at him (it is impossible to get pancake batter off of walls BTW) and then I moved out with the kids--- only to have him show up in my new house after he moved in while I was at work. I was over the craziness by that point and just wanted him gone. :lmao:So is a dozen eggs:lmao: 2
tinktronik Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 :lmao:So is a dozen eggs:lmao: :lmao::lmao: I bet that smelled bad! :lmao: The crazy things we do sometimes. I could not see myself doing those things now but eh' maybe it was Postpartum depression! That was his claim! :lmao:
PortuguesePrincess80 Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 And I keyed his car, our car legally since we were married. Okay maybe I was a bit bat**** crazy. I was also 4 weeks postpartum when this affair came to light. Not an excuse... okay, an excuse. Oh memories! It was like his 6th (known) affair though and the girl was calling threatening me and coming to my house to hang around my children and f*** my H in our bed whenever I was out of the home for even a few minutes and then even when I was home. I threatened to drag our bed into the yard and set it on fire if my exH did not get it the f*** out of our house. I had the locks changed, ordered everyone I knew pizzas and bouquets of flowers on his personal credit card, broke his coffee cup collection, discarded every precious childhood memento of his I came across that was out of place, got so mad I threw pancake batter at him (it is impossible to get pancake batter off of walls BTW) and then I moved out with the kids--- only to have him show up in my new house after he moved in while I was at work. I was over the craziness by that point and just wanted him gone. Holy sheeshkabob! I sure hope you divorced this man....beast...alien!
tinktronik Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 Holy sheeshkabob! I sure hope you divorced this man....beast...alien! Oh yes, in fact I was ranting just the other day that my divorce was the best thing to ever happen in the history of mankind. I divorce. 1
PortuguesePrincess80 Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 Oh yes, in fact I was ranting just the other day that my divorce was the best thing to ever happen in the history of mankind. I divorce. LOL @ I divorce. Good for you! After the second time you should've gotten rid of dat!
tinktronik Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 LOL @ I divorce. Good for you! After the second time you should've gotten rid of dat! Yep, I was 22 with 3 kids and no money, trapped and he knew it. I finally just left anyway. Best thing ever.
mark982 Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 my wife came home and anounced she was leaving,and she did. i burnt every stitch of clothes she owned. shirts,pants,socks,bras,panties,shoes. you name it and it got burned. only clothes she had was what she was wearing. stood in the back yard drinking beer, and burning. 1
Woggle Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 This thread is making me jealous I never did anything too crazy. I guess inviting her over after the house was remodeled and showing her what she could have had sort of counts.
bentnotbroken Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 :lmao::lmao: I bet that smelled bad! :lmao: The crazy things we do sometimes. I could not see myself doing those things now but eh' maybe it was Postpartum depression! That was his claim! :lmao: Naw. The ones on his car did though. Summer sun can be a real biotch.
Linda9999 Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 Wow, nothing so crazy as some of you! On D day #1, which was March 13 2010, when I found what I found on his computer it hit me right out of left field. I kicked him out that very day and refused to see him or talk to him for 3 months. We 'talked' via email only. The day after I found out, I sent him an email entitled 'What You are Going to Do' detailing everything I expected him to pay for and do, giving him a time limit, and calling him many choice things. I also posted the whole sordid story on another internet board I belong to that has 800 members, all women. On D day#2 (Nov 6 2010) we were in a hotel room in another province so I didn't kick him right out. I freaked out, though. I threw everything a him I could lay my hands on in that room and gave him a few bruises. He had to sleep on the couch. If there is ever a D day #3 he will be very lucky to survive with his body intact.
tinktronik Posted January 20, 2011 Posted January 20, 2011 Naw. The ones on his car did though. Summer sun can be a real biotch. I have a GF who put baloney on her husband's bentley and it became polkadotted. Hi-lar-I-us! 1
Binster Posted January 20, 2011 Posted January 20, 2011 Dont think think this is crazy at all but it felt good. I found out my then girlfriend was cheating, big row at her mums and I go to drive off, she jumps in the car and wont get out so I say okay and we go to a pub across the city (about as far away from her house as you can get and still be in the same city)to see my mates. Anyway have a good drink and she wants a lift home but I cant drive I'm drunk, she wants a taxi I lie and tell her I've done my dough in, she asks about buses, but they've finished for the night. She HATES walking and she had high heels on, I loved every minute of that loooong walk home. Not crazy but enjoyable. 1
Woggle Posted January 20, 2011 Posted January 20, 2011 I have a friend who found out his ex fiance was cheating while driving so he pulls over at a rest stop on the New Jersey turnpike so they can use the bathroom and he runs out and drives off without her. She had to pay a whole lot for the can ride home. 1
rowell2024 Posted January 20, 2011 Posted January 20, 2011 The weekend after I found out I sat in the house wasted out of my mind with a loaded gun ready to do myself in. That was the lowest I have ever been in my life. My MIL was visiting when DDay happened. My wife took her mom and our kid to our friends house. I drove over there asking if she wanted to come home and she said no. I then proceeded to get totally wasted at home, drinking on the deck in the back yard. My duty weapon (Glock 21SF) was locked up in it's case, and not on my gun belt downstairs. But I did think about it, really thought about it. Fortunately I called a friend and she talked me out of those thoughts.
2sunny Posted January 20, 2011 Posted January 20, 2011 Wow, nothing so crazy as some of you! On D day #1, which was March 13 2010, when I found what I found on his computer it hit me right out of left field. I kicked him out that very day and refused to see him or talk to him for 3 months. We 'talked' via email only. The day after I found out, I sent him an email entitled 'What You are Going to Do' detailing everything I expected him to pay for and do, giving him a time limit, and calling him many choice things. I also posted the whole sordid story on another internet board I belong to that has 800 members, all women. On D day#2 (Nov 6 2010) we were in a hotel room in another province so I didn't kick him right out. I freaked out, though. I threw everything a him I could lay my hands on in that room and gave him a few bruises. He had to sleep on the couch. If there is ever a D day #3 he will be very lucky to survive with his body intact. D-Day #3? oh my... when will you ever get a boundary? my forgiveness happened once. D-Day in 1996... i was true to my word- IF i ever found him doing it again - he was out... with not even so much as a conversation. i held to it in 2006 as best i could by calling and telling him not to bother coming home - the 20 year marriage was over and the locks had been changed. that was the convo after i found out that the weekend away wasn't his business meeting - but a weekend with his MOW. i would never go back to that old life again. i did make it look really bad for myself for a while afterwards... thank goodness i woke up and started living again. i'll never give a man that much power again. 1
Butchannon Posted February 13, 2011 Posted February 13, 2011 I told her to leave. She and her family said I was crazy and I would beat her next time. They took away my child and didn't allow me to do a paternity. The most crazy thing was I wrote her parents a letter and apologized for being such an impulsive and agressive jerk for telling her to leave and that I loved their daughter so much... Her parents didn't want to listen what she has done to me and they haven't talked to me for more than a year because I told her to leave. I found out I had STDs later. I was afraid to say anything to her.
Terrier Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 My ws works in the same office as the ow so it is inevitable that I will eventually see her. I happen to know that she has had a boob job. My fantasy is to go up to her at a party when ther is no one nearby, look down at her boobs then look her in the face and say 'they look a lot more natural than Brian said'. Obviously I will never do this.
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