I don't know if do I love my Ex boyfriend still or I'm just missing him.

[abby1128]

I dunno if im just infatuated or im inlove. i had a relationship with my crush last october.. i know i didnt know him well but i answer him so fast just because i admire him, i have a crush on him.. we last for only 2months, i broke up with him because i think that our relationship was no longer worth it ( he dont have time for me, he didnt do any efforts just to be with me unlike when were new ) . so now , im asking for second chance, but he's answer was " Sorry " . when im seeing him at school he'll just ignore me and it hurts a lot. i dont know how to start moving on.. Its almost 1month that im single, but still he's the one who's always on my mind. >,< what should i do? do i love him? or im just infatuated? help. i'll appreciate it..

[Cee]

I think you are in "love" with the idea of your crush than the reality. Remember that he treated you badly when you were dating. Think of all the times he ignored you and wasn't good to you. You have forgotten that he was a bad boyfriend.

 

Getting over someone is hard especially because infatuation is a strong feeling. Try to spend time with friends and doing things you enjoy. The pain fades with time.

 

Hang in there and keep posting.

[abby1128]

Thank you so much for the reply..

[abby1128]

i need more replies.. please help me.

[Trovador]

Keep thinking that you made the right decision even if it hurts now, in life we meet some people that win our hearts but sadly, for one or many reasons, we can't stay with them and actually, some of those people are harmful to ourselves... be humble, we can't always win but we can always learn...

[abby1128]

thankyou for the reply..

[justletgox51]

We're going through the same thing. I'm still in my second year of high school and he's on his 3rd. And our school is a little different than normal schools 'cause we're allowed to go any course room to do our homework, and it's all mixed grades that are in one room. So, I always see him hall-walking, being in a department, talking to teachers, people, etc. However, I'm also 1-month single and he broke up our 11 month relationship. But what I do is ignore him, and try my best to think of other things such as school work, friends, etc. Focus on something you like or you really need to achieve on like your studies! And also focus yourself with your friends!

 

Good luck!!