randy90631 Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 Hello everyone, I've been dating a woman for a little over 2 months. After a month of dating I asked her what she thought about us being exclusive. She said that she wanted more time for us to get to know each other. Since then, we've got out on lots of dates. I've been have a great time getting to know each other. I make her laugh all the time, and we always have fun. No serious conversations. We see each other once to twice a week, and communicate via text message/phone call almost everyday. Basically, I'm looking for a serious relationship and I believe it could happen with this woman. We are very compatable, see have a lot of common interest. Not to mention we've had some deep conversations. So, things are going great. However, I have a big heart, and I do see myself falling for this woman. I want to spare myself the heartache, if she doesn't feel the same way. Around three months of seeing each other I want to have a conversation with her, unless she initiates it before then. I want to say something like this: "Over the last three months, things have been going great, and we had a lot of fun getting to know each other. You an awesome woman and you've seen that I'm a great guy. I've reached that age where I'm looking for someone to have a serious relationship with. I've gotten to know you with the confidence to know that I want to develop something serious with you. I feel it's time for us to date exclusively. What do you think?" It happens to be that Valentine's day is one day before three months, rather than tell this all to her, I'm thinking of writing it in a card and handing it to her at dinner. I think my chances of her saying "yes!" is 70% or so. I'm 30 years old, and she's 28. I think at three months it's time to transition to a exclusive relationship. If she's still on the fense at that point, than I'm being strung along, and I'm wasting my time. Any suggestions on what I should do?
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