dispatch3d Posted January 20, 2011 Posted January 20, 2011 I've met hundreds of male and female models from LA and New York. Virtually none of them seemed stuck up. The things I've read about good looking people is that among other things, they are better socialized as they grow up. They get more attention from teachers and others. Much of this extra attention is good for them. My idea isn't so much about hotness as it is about appeal. Being appealing to the opposite sex, which includes good looks, but also other personality traits, gets you a better relationship. I hate the number scale, but if you're really a 3 or 4 in general appeal, you often end up in a bad or difficult relationship. Good looking people have more options and have more chances to choose better relationships. I think this is just one example of the world being unfair. Not much you can do about it. Being alone isn't worse than a bad relationship. People would be happier if they believed that. I like the way you phrased that - appeal. I couldn't agree more. The whole who you can get thing really is based more on appeal than anything else. Maybe this whole concept of "alphamale" is misdirected. Really the most appealing guy is the most sought after by everyone - women and men both want to hang out with them. The fact they are "alpha" is just a coincidence at best.
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted January 20, 2011 Posted January 20, 2011 The way I see it, people that are beautiful - truly beautiful - radiate it from the inside out. The ones who are beautiful on the outside but cold shells on the inside are like statues, meticulously carved and flawless in every way, but there's nothing but empty space inside.
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