quietGuy13 Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 Usually guys like beauties but many times it's really difficult cause those girls don't like them. same thing with me. i don't think any of the women i like, would like me back.But I do think because i had close calls, that women that are not attractive to me would wanna date me/be girlfriend. One girl that's not my type..she mailed me in 2002 or something. As my secret admirer. She was a girl from highschool( from 1996) and i was surprised. ini highschool i never talked to anyone and also how the heck did she get my address. Well, she wrote to me and she wanted to be my gf. i stopped contact, but then in 2009 she wrote again. i dumped the letter to the trash. hehe Various other girls online also wanted to be my gf but they were not my type. So it seems that below average girls like me but hot girls don't.
Jazzari Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 Usually guys like beauties but many times it's really difficult cause those girls don't like them. same thing with me. i don't think any of the women i like, would like me back.But I do think because i had close calls, that women that are not attractive to me would wanna date me/be girlfriend. One girl that's not my type..she mailed me in 2002 or something. As my secret admirer. She was a girl from highschool( from 1996) and i was surprised. ini highschool i never talked to anyone and also how the heck did she get my address. Well, she wrote to me and she wanted to be my gf. i stopped contact, but then in 2009 she wrote again. i dumped the letter to the trash. hehe Various other girls online also wanted to be my gf but they were not my type. So it seems that below average girls like me but hot girls don't.Take a good long look in the mirror. In my experience, guys tend to think they look alot better than they really do. You are most likely trying to play out of your league.
tb24 Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 Ok seriously? 1) Looks aren't everything. Both ways. The 'hot' girls you like, would you get on with them maybe you'd have a lot in common with the girl who was 'not your type'? 2) Looks are still important. If you don't find your partner physically attractive the relationship wont work. 3) "But I do think because i had close calls, that women that are not attractive to me would wanna date me/be girlfriend.". Do you know why this is? Because you don't appear needy/shy/desperate to them and can be comfortable around them. Do the same to the girls you are attracted to and you'll get similar reactions from them. You're placing the attractive women on a pedestal, believing them to be 'better' than you. Well if you believe that, why would they believe any different?
Author quietGuy13 Posted January 18, 2011 Author Posted January 18, 2011 Take a good long look in the mirror. In my experience, guys tend to think they look alot better than they really do. You are most likely trying to play out of your league. i didnt say i'm hot or handsome. I always think i'm ugly and below average
Cee Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 I have learned to be hot for men who are attracted to me. It's a simple suggestion, but it works. I'm not attracted to every guy who likes me, but many of them. As a result, my dating plate has been quite abundant. By the way, if you think you are ugly, then you can't like girls who like you. You will not believe in their attraction and think they have something wrong with them. Learn to enjoy your looks, whatever you have been given. That will make dating easier. Hang in there.
Jazzari Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 i didnt say i'm hot or handsome. I always think i'm ugly and below average You say you are below average but aren't attracted to below average girls. You only like hot girls. Sorry, you get no sympathy from me.
stillafool Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 You say you are below average but aren't attracted to below average girls. You only like hot girls. Sorry, you get no sympathy from me. I agree. It's pretty obvious you have to lower your standards.
irc333 Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 Like the song says "If ya wanna be happy for the rest of your life, you cannot make a pretty woman your wife, if you want my personal point of view, you get an UGLY girl to marry you!!" LOL Usually guys like beauties but many times it's really difficult cause those girls don't like them. same thing with me. i don't think any of the women i like, would like me back.But I do think because i had close calls, that women that are not attractive to me would wanna date me/be girlfriend. One girl that's not my type..she mailed me in 2002 or something. As my secret admirer. She was a girl from highschool( from 1996) and i was surprised. ini highschool i never talked to anyone and also how the heck did she get my address. Well, she wrote to me and she wanted to be my gf. i stopped contact, but then in 2009 she wrote again. i dumped the letter to the trash. hehe Various other girls online also wanted to be my gf but they were not my type. So it seems that below average girls like me but hot girls don't.
irc333 Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 There was this one woman, on a dating site, no joke...she said she spent a few months in Beverly Hills, and now is back home...and now expects good looking guys to email her, and that unattractive men should not. THen she said, "you should know wether or not you're attractive enough to contact me, so if you don't think you're attractive, then don't bother!" She had grainy, unrecognizable photos of herself, too. I still wonder if she's joking, I mean, who can make such a statement without shame?
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 Sometimes the most attractive girls have the most unattractive personalities. Learn to look deeper.
hydorclops Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 Jazzari: You say you are below average but aren't attracted to below average girls. You only like hot girls. Sorry, you get no sympathy from me. Why are you offering hugs to a woman, with the exact same issue, in a different thread? I have some sympathy for both of them. The problem is that people who are below average aren't blind. Even if he or she chooses you, they would rather be with someone else. It's a drag.
Jazzari Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 Why are you offering hugs to a woman, with the exact same issue, in a different thread? I have some sympathy for both of them. The problem is that people who are below average aren't blind. Even if he or she chooses you, they would rather be with someone else. It's a drag. ??? I have no idea what you're talking about. The thread where I offered a hug, the girl talked about being lonely and wanting friends. She didn't cry because she couldn't get Brad Pitt to date her while simultaneously spitting on an old friend who was trying to reconnect - and laughing about it. If she did elsewhere, I missed it. I've dated men who were below my league. And no, I sure as hell didn't want to be with anyone else. Not even Brad Pitt. In my eyes, my SO was much hotter though the general population wouldn't agree. I'll never understand how an unattractive man can look down on "ugly" women but get all bent out of shape because hotties won't look twice at him. Same goes for women though I don't think that's as common.
Bertram Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 1. join a gym 2. get in tip-top shape (6 pack etc) 3. ??? 4. profit
Sanman Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 (edited) Agreed with all of the above. You have two choices: 1. Make yourself better looking 2. Lower your standards I had a friend like this. He would constantly compare the women I and other friends dated with the women he dated and be unsatisfied. Yet, he was 5'4", balding, with a beer belly. I am over 6' tall, with a full head of hair, and while I no longer have a 6-pack, I am reasonably fit and workout regularly. I also pay more attention to my style and clothing. Rather than change himself and aim for better, he got jealous of us and lost friends. Last I checked he is still in a relationship that he is unhappy with because that woman is desperate to get married to anyone. Either get to a place where you are able to date women you find attractive regularly or become comfortable with not dating. Edited January 18, 2011 by Sanman
phillyfan Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 Usually guys like beauties but many times it's really difficult cause those girls don't like them. same thing with me. i don't think any of the women i like, would like me back.But I do think because i had close calls, that women that are not attractive to me would wanna date me/be girlfriend. One girl that's not my type..she mailed me in 2002 or something. As my secret admirer. She was a girl from highschool( from 1996) and i was surprised. ini highschool i never talked to anyone and also how the heck did she get my address. Well, she wrote to me and she wanted to be my gf. i stopped contact, but then in 2009 she wrote again. i dumped the letter to the trash. hehe Various other girls online also wanted to be my gf but they were not my type. So it seems that below average girls like me but hot girls don't. Yeah dude and u want to know why...cause you act like an ass. U dump the girls letter in the trash and say 'he he'. Thats not nice dude. Work out, tan, get outta the house and forget the freakin computer and get a real life, hit the gym, hit the bars, meet a girl the rite way. Works for me
phillyfan Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 Like the song says "If ya wanna be happy for the rest of your life, you cannot make a pretty woman your wife, if you want my personal point of view, you get an UGLY girl to marry you!!" LOL LOL yea rite, marry an ugly chick, thats the road to happiness, then u can laugh at the loser with the hottie. What a tool he must be eh
ConflictedGuy27 Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 1. join a gym 2. get in tip-top shape (6 pack etc) 3. ??? 4. profit that's awesome! lol. reminds me of those underpants gnomes from south park.
AD1980 Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 im in a similliar boat,not that im only attracted to really hot women but if my league is women im not physically attracted to at all id rather be alone..
Sivok Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 Agreed with all of the above. You have two choices: 1. Make yourself better looking 2. Lower your standards I had a friend like this. He would constantly compare the women I and other friends dated with the women he dated and be unsatisfied. Yet, he was 5'4", balding, with a beer belly. I am over 6' tall, with a full head of hair, and while I no longer have a 6-pack, I am reasonably fit and workout regularly. I also pay more attention to my style and clothing. Rather than change himself and aim for better, he got jealous of us and lost friends. Last I checked he is still in a relationship that he is unhappy with because that woman is desperate to get married to anyone. Either get to a place where you are able to date women you find attractive regularly or become comfortable with not dating.Exactly. If you're overweight and don't take care of yourself, yet only want women who are the exact opposite of you... Then you need to seriously re evaluate your standards or work to get what you want.
Surrealist Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 Take a good long look in the mirror. In my experience, guys tend to think they look alot better than they really do. You are most likely trying to play out of your league. Same with the gross over-weight middle-aged pigs at my workplace that had tried, desperately, to get me. Way out of your league ladies so ****ing back off into your hole.
OceanGirl Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 Same with the gross over-weight middle-aged pigs at my workplace that had tried, desperately, to get me. Way out of your league ladies so ****ing back off into your hole. That's not very nice
Mad Max Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 Same with the gross over-weight middle-aged pigs at my workplace that had tried, desperately, to get me. Way out of your league ladies so ****ing back off into your hole. Be nice. Some of them are very nice women.
Surrealist Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 That's not very nice Sorry that was my half-assed attempt at developing my masculine, confident, narcissistic bad-boy character.
Surrealist Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 Be nice. Some of them are very nice women. Actually, and honestly, at least one of those women wasn't. I kid you not, she could be 'nice' most of the time but on a couple of occasions, for no reason whatsover, she offended me outright, and boy if it wasn't intentional offense, then she would need to learn to curb her toungue big time. Was only because we were in a workplace that I refrained from abusing her back (I'm capable of that when pushed enough), she had my blood boiling at one stage.
dispatch3d Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 ??? I have no idea what you're talking about. The thread where I offered a hug, the girl talked about being lonely and wanting friends. She didn't cry because she couldn't get Brad Pitt to date her while simultaneously spitting on an old friend who was trying to reconnect - and laughing about it. If she did elsewhere, I missed it. I've dated men who were below my league. And no, I sure as hell didn't want to be with anyone else. Not even Brad Pitt. In my eyes, my SO was much hotter though the general population wouldn't agree. I'll never understand how an unattractive man can look down on "ugly" women but get all bent out of shape because hotties won't look twice at him. Same goes for women though I don't think that's as common. Unattractive men are people to. They probably feel just as badly about hot girls not giving them the time of day, as the "unattractive" girls feel about some guys ignoring them.
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