Lemontang Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 Wasn't too sure if this would fit the coping or general thread. But I guess coping as it's a realisation on how far I've come since a significant ex and I broke up literally a year & 1 week ago. I've been doing pretty much well as some may know as per my story http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t253971/ But I hit a brick wall today that I felt I not only broke through but pulverised it Hulk smash style. I've since moved on and in a pretty good relationship now with what everyone says is a real keeper and I can see the qualities in this girl that really make that so. So I've waited on the day when I could run into my ex just so she could see how far I've come without her. Call it selfish or in some ways egotistical but I've come a very long way in 12 months and I got to show that today. Not to the ex but to her best friend the enabler that helped lead her down the garden path. I ran into her & even my GF found her over the top niceness fake. That aside she proceeded to probe me for info on what I'd been up to in the last 12 months. And I had no problem sharing this so I made sure she knew of all the good stuff that'd been going on in my life and upcoming stuff too (I'm off in a few months overseas to do a few motorbike tours) and really I've been having a good time with my life. Information I know will get back to the ex asap. And no I'm not looking to get back with her hell I've got a great girl now why would I go back to a train wreck like that? But it actually felt good to hit back and say I'm doing alright...no wait I'm doing F'n fantastic just look at my last 12 months life resume, and in that I realised the dead weight was gone.
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