All the questions I want to ask, but will never be spoken....

[Aisha4457]

Do you miss my face?

Do you miss my smile?

Do you miss my laugh?

Do you miss my arms and my hugs?

Do you miss my lips and my kisses?

Do you miss my eyes and their colour?

Do you miss playing with my hair?

Do you miss my voice?

Do you miss cooking pancakes in the middle of the day?

Do you miss being able to hold on to me?

Do you miss cuddling into me when sleeping?

Do you miss waking up to me?

Do you miss being able to touch me?

Do you miss having shampoo fights in the shower?

Do you miss holding my hand?

Do you miss walking with me?

Do you miss talking to me?

Do you miss calling my name?

Do you miss seeing me at the station?

Do you miss seeing my name come up on your phone?

Do you miss being able to cuddle me in close and breathe an all familiar smell?

Do you miss singing to me?

Do you miss sharing music with me?

Do you miss watching films together even though I’d ruin them?

Do you miss your best friend?

Do you miss the bond we shared?

Do you miss me?

Does it hurt knowing you’ll never see my face again

Does it hurt knowing you’ll never hear my voice again

Does it hurt knowing you’ll never hear me laugh again

Does it hurt knowing you’ll never see my smile again

Does it hurt knowing you will never touch me again

Does it hurt knowing you’ll never hold my hand again

Does it hurts knowing you’ll never hug me again

Does it hurt knowing you’ll never kiss me again

Does it hurt knowing you’ll never cuddle me in at night again

Does it hurt knowing you’ll never wake up beside me again

Does it hurt knowing you we will never share any more memories

Does it hurt knowing my name will never appear on your phone again

Does it hurt to think I’ll tell someone else I love them one day

Does it hurt to think all the things you used to do, someone else will do it

Does it hurt knowing you’ll be without me forever.

[coltsfan1]

these are questions all of us have. IMO it is worse if the relationship ends on a bad note. Just know that at some point the ex either has or will ask themselves these same questions...

[Eeyore79]

If the person in question dumped you, the answer to all of those questions is probably NO. In fact they're probably relieved to be rid of you. If you've ever been the dumper, you will know how little you cared about the person you dumped - that's how little your dumper cares about you. You need to forget about stuff like this and move on; your dumper already has.

[Stilicho]

this is a sad post, but very true for preety much every dumpee i believe. i often think to myself that eerytime she does something we used to do, or something i taught her how, she has to think of me.

 

for example, when i first met her, she could not cook at all, over the course of the next 2 years, i taught her to be a great cook, and she often cooks for her self now, using recipes i taught her. also, every morning she goes to the gym, something i got her to do, and would go with her every day. She also has a new dog, that i named.

 

i think that they think of you, but they try to bury the memories as to avoid doubt, kinda like looking back on them as if they happened long ago, you know?

 

obviously for us, we think these things all the time, and for some reason hope they do too, but we have to realize that it doesnt matter what they think anymore, it matters what we think, and what we do. they no longer have a controlling stake in our lives, and as such, we must persevere.

[layla1983]

Oh that is sooo sad. I would love to send that to my ex in an email but would be terrified to do it!!!! What if he said NO, but what if he said YES???

[Atlantico]

If the person in question dumped you, the answer to all of those questions is probably NO. In fact they're probably relieved to be rid of you. If you've ever been the dumper, you will know how little you cared about the person you dumped - that's how little your dumper cares about you. You need to forget about stuff like this and move on; your dumper already has.

 

So, so very TRUE!! I have been both the dumper and the dumped. Move on for your own sake.

[bluebirdsfly]

If the person in question dumped you, the answer to all of those questions is probably NO. In fact they're probably relieved to be rid of you. If you've ever been the dumper, you will know how little you cared about the person you dumped - that's how little your dumper cares about you. You need to forget about stuff like this and move on; your dumper already has.

 

This is very true, though sad. Thank you for reminding me. I guess my ex has been really happy that I never contacted him after breakup, and has already forgot about us as if it happened at another lifetime.