brneyedgrl Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 I'm the girl all my friends come to for advice, support, and motivation for moving on from loss of love. But now I've become the woman I always warned my friends not to become. Constantly analyzing the last months of us, wondering where I went wrong, wondering where he is and what he's doing with whom. Stressing, losing sleep and beating myself up over the man who I thought was the one, leaving me. Six years ago if I saw me right now I wouldn't recognize me. I have got to get myself back to the strong woman I was that would say "good riddance" to him and this situation instead of "I can't breathe it hurts to much". Sigh.
stopthemadness Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 wow! I could have wrote that post a few months back. It does get better. Yea it takes time and all the no contact you can muster up. But you will in time see your self comming back. As time goes by (and it will) you start having days where you think,good for me I didnt feel sad 2day. Then before you know it a week goes by and so on. Iam still at about a week before I start thinking, missing and all that stuff. Soo I see a therapist once a week. It helps, have you thought about seeing a therapist? Good Luck to us..we can do this..
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