aerogurl87 Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 I took some people on here's advice and took a few days to clear my head (no contact with either ex) to decide what it was I wanted to do. With some major reflection on things I cut things off with my former ex boyfriend (the soldier) for good. This meant blocking him on all social networks, deleting and blocking his phone number on my phone, and getting rid of everything that reminded me of him. Reasons for that being he is well on his way to becoming an alcoholic and us being together would not be fulfilling my needs. In the meantime I told my other ex (Canadian ex) to move on because I knew I'd hurt him and he should find someone better. Of course he didn't take no for an answer and said he wanted to stay friends at least. That turned into us talking like we had when we first got together and made me start missing him and the relationship we had had before. The relationship that made me sure he was the person I wanted to be with and that had made me decide to move to his country. With that said, he told me he wanted me back and if I was willing to work at things he wanted to see if our issues were fixable. We've been talking a fair bit and things are looking up, but we still aren't together. He's coming to see me in about a month for the first time ever, so we'll see what happens.
folieadeux Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 Welcome back Aero, I'm glad you took some time out for yourself. It seems like it did you a world of good. I can't help but be optimistic about your possible reconciliation with your ex in Canada; I always felt the strong connection you two had with each other through your posts, even in spite of the recent problems. I think it's a good sign too that he's coming to visit you for the first time; I'm sure that means alot to you too. I wish you both the best of luck.
Author aerogurl87 Posted January 18, 2011 Author Posted January 18, 2011 Welcome back Aero, I'm glad you took some time out for yourself. It seems like it did you a world of good. I can't help but be optimistic about your possible reconciliation with your ex in Canada; I always felt the strong connection you two had with each other through your posts, even in spite of the recent problems. I think it's a good sign too that he's coming to visit you for the first time; I'm sure that means alot to you too. I wish you both the best of luck. Thanks folieadeux, yes I'm happy I took some time out to think also. I finally got some time to be free to think for myself without having everyone's opinions be thrown at me left and right, which was nice. And yeah I'm happy/nervous about him coming down here for the first time. He'll be meeting all my friends and my parents for the first time which is somewhat nerve racking. If things do go well though, I told him I'll fly back up to Canada with him for a bit so we can talk more and see if we can work things out and get back to how we used to be. So we'll see what happens, right now though I'm trying to plan out what we're gonna do while he's here.
blugirl Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 So happy to hear the news aerogurl, hope that no matter what happens it's gonna be good for you ^^
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