nc3313 Posted January 17, 2011 Posted January 17, 2011 My story could be a bit long but I've struggled with trying to get past this for a while now so I need your help. I met this girl almost a year ago. She at that time was living with her boyfriend at his parents house. We did nothing but text and talk on the phone. She told me that she wanted to move and be done with him and she never thought she could do any better than him till she met me. A couple weeks later she packed up her things and moved to her own place. Things seemed to be fine with us but eventually she started answering the text messages from the ex again. I think that is what started messing with her head. She eventually moved out and moved back to the ex's parents house. She always had a really good relationship with his parents. I would go by the retail store she worked and talk to her alot just wanting things to work out with us. She always told me she just couldn't ever see herself with this guy again. I decided to quit talking to her because each time I would go visit her at the store I would leave feeling worse than when I went in. About a month later, I get a text from her and she has moved into her own place right down the road from me. Things were no better this time. She was still the same confused girl as before unable to have a relationship until she got past the old one. So I told her, I really wanted to be with her but she was at no point to make that happen. I started dating another girl and about a week later I received a text talking about how she felt she had missed her chance and she was always a day late. About the same time, the dating with the new girl wasn't working out so I agreed we give it a chance. She was really close for a few days and then once again became distant again. Now about a week ago, she moved in with a lady that she works with and seems to be distant again. She keeps telling me that if I was just let things happen on their own then we would be fine. I honestly don't know what to do?
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