Owz600 Posted January 17, 2011 Posted January 17, 2011 I broke up with my ex 3 weeks ago, I was with her for 3 years, we ended on mutual ground and the relationship had been suffering for months. I was the one who broke up with her but she wanted it also but didn't have the courage to do it, we both agreed we needed to find each other again, I believe we both love each other but we should never get back together in till our heads are in check. Anyway on saturday I went out, I happened to pull plenty of girls somehow... it's not down to my dancing I know that for sure .... well there's pictures on facebook of me kissing a girl and dancing with girls. I no longer have her added on facebook but I have her 2 close friends added, what will she think when she hears about it? Will it make her miss me? or make her think she needs to do the same?
trippi1432 Posted January 17, 2011 Posted January 17, 2011 Jealousy is never a good thing, it breeds insecurity, anger and a lack of trust. I can tell you the advice I got when my exH and I split up was to look my best and act as if my life were moving on without him. He was always a very jealous person, and he moved right on without me to another woman and that is where he is today. Really it comes down to her, and if you think about it (and FB getting the rep it gets these days), you've just given her friends the ammo they need to talk her out of wanting to work things out with you. Not accusing you of playing games, but jealousy can be a cruel game that can backfire very quickly. If you really care about her and love her, respect her feelings as she should be respecting yours.
OOReeee Posted January 17, 2011 Posted January 17, 2011 I'm there right now, friend. A mutual break up, I still have feelings, doesn't sure if we does, she wants to be friends, I try to move on while thinking of her all the time, she talk to me saying she's jealous of me for moving on, not needing her anymore. I also ended up with a girl the first weekend after the break up, she doesn't know and I'm not gonna tell her. If your ex finds out via fb so she does, not much you can do about it, rebounds (or kisses at a club, for that matter) happen. I don't know your ex but in my opinion it can go both ways, she'll obviously be jealous if she still feels something for you. The question is whether it is a positive jealous ("I can't see him with anyone else must have him omnomnom") or a negative one ("what a man-slut, can't believe that's the person I was with, rarara"). But you do need to remember that you guys are not together anymore, so you can do whatever you want, and so can she. You both aren't ready to get back together, and maybe you need this to be a factor in a future reconciliation.
Author Owz600 Posted January 17, 2011 Author Posted January 17, 2011 Thanks for the replies, I have asked my friend to delete the pictures of me with girls and such in till I figure things out. Personally I would be very upset if I saw her with the same kind of pictures. I would be jealous but hurt more than anything. Maybe I should be more careful.
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