Aisha4457 Posted January 17, 2011 Posted January 17, 2011 After a rocky breakup and past few weeks (it will be a month tomorrow since we split) I said goodbye to my ex for the last time on saturday night. We did talk about the relationship, where it went wrong and what we could of done better and he took most the blame, whether to make it an easier ride on him or because he geniuinely believed it I don't know. Anyway he said he'll always be there if I ever need him even at 4 in the morning just call and he will be there. I said get in contact if you ever want to give it a proper go again. He said okay and I asked him to block me, but he refused so I said okay and I left. Meaning I blocked and deleted him. (Why won't he block and delete me!?) He didn't seem to bothered I was going, he was the dumper. After a year and a half and all the memories and just the bond we shared I thought he would of cared more. My friend seems to think it's because he thinks I'll be back, so no need to take it seriously, but I'm determined now. It's been 2 days with NC, yes it's hard but I am soldiering on!
Stilicho Posted January 17, 2011 Posted January 17, 2011 aisha, im with you, tommorrow is the one month break up mark for me too, lol. I had a similar meeting with my ex last friday, and have maintained NC since. Its hard, but keep it up, you cant let them keep your power and win. youll be a stronger person because of this, and one day theyll regret it, but by than, they wont be an afterthought to you. your better than them. stay strong.
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