daphne Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 Both men and women can be sociopaths and it seems to be quite common throughout society. Actually, I believe 10% of all sociopaths are female. However, narcissists, who ressemble sociopaths closely but aren't as bat sh** crazy (yes that's the technical term) abound in today's American society. It's becoming the new normal.
Nexus One Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 Actually, statistically that's incorrect. I believe 10% of all sociopaths are female. I didn't mention any statistics. However, even if 10% of all sociopaths are women, then still people from both genders can be sociopaths.
daphne Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 I didn't mention any statistics. However, even if 10% of all sociopaths are women, then still people from both genders can be sociopaths. Sorry, I misread and had already corrected.
Eddie Edirol Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 Ummmmm what? Are you a troll, or did you actually just cheat on your man and still expect him to marry you??? Id be willing to bet that she didnt tell him she cheated on him. 8 months ago just last May. If he marrys her, she will prolly cheat on him again. WOW! shes been on this board since she was a teenager.
Woggle Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 Yet another example of why players have less pain and heartbreak.
ILOVEMYHUSBAND Posted March 12, 2011 Posted March 12, 2011 Many women think that they are ready for marriage and children when they are only partially ready. There is more to it than just being in love. Here is an article that you may find helpful when searching for a husband. http://dating.helium.com/how-to/12745-how-to-choose-a-husband
Author KunFuZed Posted May 16, 2011 Author Posted May 16, 2011 OP, before I offer an opinion, could you relate the relevance of this thread to your current situation? The timeline has me a bit confused and I need some clarity first. These two have nothing to do with each other. I will admit the timing is kind of close buy they dont relate.
utterer of lies Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 Oh, delicious drama. These two have nothing to do with each other. I will admit the timing is kind of close buy they dont relate. Is your current bf the co-worker?
Ginger Beer Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 That's like saying: "I want to be married, period. I don't care to whom, as long as I'm married before the age of 27." That's nuts. You should be with a person because you love being with that person. What difference does the legal status make? Getting married for the sake of getting married is just plain ridiculous. Exactly. :laugh:
orion1010 Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 you sound exactly like me ex fiance and I. we were together 3.5 years. he proposed after a year and a half. engaged for a year and a half. I finally broke it off because he couldn't even set a date. I feared if he couldn't set a date, we would never and it was time for me to move on and find someone new. I didn't want to waste anymore time. We had a few breakups and everytime we broke up and would come back to me with the same promises about our plans and future. Some time would go by and he would just put these plans off. We were getting along great, but I realized we wanted different things and I had to give myself a the chance to find what i wanted. I had to let him go and give him what he truely wanted. freedom. if he wanted to get married, he would have. My ex and I almost ran to the court hours early on. In my head I REALLY wanted to get married and I told him I wanted a wedding. He was willing in the beginning. I'm glad I didn't rush into it. Now, all i have left is the engadgment ring and memories. I think a compromise is the best thing to do. Some men will delay and string you along. Not all men. If he is unwilling to seriously concider a compromise in the middle, then I would move on. No use is wasting time.
Author KunFuZed Posted May 16, 2011 Author Posted May 16, 2011 Oh, delicious drama. Is your current bf the co-worker? No he isn't
Woggle Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 The reason some men are so afraid of marriage is because some women stop caring after the wedding. They had their white dress day and their wedding and now the husband is chopped liver. Many men to me seem to be just props for a woman to have her day and when it is all over things go down hill from there. Men do want to marry but we want a happy marriage that lasts. We want to minimize our chances of coming home and getting that dreaded speech telling us she is no longer in love and wants a divorce. This is something no man wants to hear and the best to avoid that is marry smart. When a woman gets wedding fever it is usually because she has some clock ticking or all her friends are getting married and she feels left out or some reason that has nothing to do with loving each other and sharing a life together. Men might be more reluctant to get to the alter but once we tie knot many of take commitment much more seriously than some women. Look at the divorce boards on this forum and you will see why many men want to be smart when they marry.
cookie21 Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 Marriage is a big commitmit and if he is not ready right now..then do not force him into it.....just let him know what you want and if he dosent want same...leave him and find someone that wants the same things you want.
Author KunFuZed Posted May 18, 2011 Author Posted May 18, 2011 Id be willing to bet that she didnt tell him she cheated on him. 8 months ago just last May. If he marrys her, she will prolly cheat on him again. WOW! shes been on this board since she was a teenager. F.Y.I. I never cheated on him. Never did and NEVER WILL and who really cares when I started posting? I thought the point of coming here was to seek advice
ivalm Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 So that previous thread was just a troll post? Then I think it's likely true that this is a troll thread too... Or, perhaps, you're just exaggerating the 9 months of relationship while in reality you've been dating much less (perhaps 9 months referred to when you first met him?)... Either way he's likely a rebound for you that got stuck because your "it's time to marry" alarm clock started buzzing. From what you've let us know, I sincerely hope that your guy is smart enough to not marry you. Until you seriously reevaluate your life, you're in no shape to marry anyone.
Star Gazer Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 I don't think you should set a deadline for a lifelong commitment based on an age you picked in your childhood. When I was a child, I wanted to be a neurosurgeon and have 3 kids by now. THANK G-D that didn't happen!
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