xoxokm Posted January 17, 2011 Posted January 17, 2011 So theres this guy that I met around mid august. We never made it official but we were talking for a good 3 months, while we talked we spent tons of time together. He would take me on dates and come spend time with me at my house every other day, if not every day. We didnt end up kissing until about 3 weeks or so of us hanging out and then we slept together around the end of september or early october. He used to text me all the time also, saying he loved my company, he loved the person i was, and he enjoyed the chemistry we had since we always had each other laughing. We did have a wonderful friendship, well while it lasted. Then shortly after this around the end of october, I no longer received texts and when we did talk he would stop texting me in the middle of a conversation. Oh and from almost seeing him everyday I didnt see him for weeks at a time. So me being the overly confident person I am I kinda felt unwanted and my ego was extremely bruised Then my birthday passed in november and he didnt even remember it! so that was the last straw I told him I was over him and I no longer even wanted to be his friend. He told me that he really liked me and that he just had been busy with work and school but he wasnt going to sit there and beg because he wasnt the type to. So we cut it off there. So in december he ended up texting me telling me he missed me alot, and he didnt know why that happened between us. so me being the sucker I am, I told him i missed him too and that we could still be friends. Now he texts me more frequently and shows an interest but he told me he would pass by after work this past friday but he totally stood me up! and hasnt texted me since. -___- I dont know what to do!! Also I was looking at our horoscopes because Im a scorpio and he's a saggitarius we supposedly, have great chemistry, great sex, but were not compatibable what so ever because I want to settle down and he wants to party. **when we were together we used to talk for hours about nothing and the sex was amazingggggg, on both sides and he even texted me nice things like "when we kiss he feels more then just a kiss". **btw it isnt that he's not attracted to me, im a smart sexy young curvy mamacita and I NEVER get turned down!! never. so im feeling really hurt. :/ HELP GUYS! what should I do? just forget about this jerk? or try and work on it?
SarcasticBlonde Posted January 17, 2011 Posted January 17, 2011 So theres this guy that I met around mid august. We never made it official but we were talking for a good 3 months, while we talked we spent tons of time together. He would take me on dates and come spend time with me at my house every other day, if not every day. We didnt end up kissing until about 3 weeks or so of us hanging out and then we slept together around the end of september or early october. He used to text me all the time also, saying he loved my company, he loved the person i was, and he enjoyed the chemistry we had since we always had each other laughing. We did have a wonderful friendship, well while it lasted. Then shortly after this around the end of october, I no longer received texts and when we did talk he would stop texting me in the middle of a conversation. Oh and from almost seeing him everyday I didnt see him for weeks at a time. So me being the overly confident person I am I kinda felt unwanted and my ego was extremely bruised Then my birthday passed in november and he didnt even remember it! so that was the last straw I told him I was over him and I no longer even wanted to be his friend. He told me that he really liked me and that he just had been busy with work and school but he wasnt going to sit there and beg because he wasnt the type to. So we cut it off there. So in december he ended up texting me telling me he missed me alot, and he didnt know why that happened between us. so me being the sucker I am, I told him i missed him too and that we could still be friends. Now he texts me more frequently and shows an interest but he told me he would pass by after work this past friday but he totally stood me up! and hasnt texted me since. -___- I dont know what to do!! Also I was looking at our horoscopes because Im a scorpio and he's a saggitarius we supposedly, have great chemistry, great sex, but were not compatibable what so ever because I want to settle down and he wants to party. **when we were together we used to talk for hours about nothing and the sex was amazingggggg, on both sides and he even texted me nice things like "when we kiss he feels more then just a kiss". **btw it isnt that he's not attracted to me, im a smart sexy young curvy mamacita and I NEVER get turned down!! never. so im feeling really hurt. :/ HELP GUYS! what should I do? just forget about this jerk? or try and work on it? Horoscopes are for fun, not to base a relationship on, IMO
SmileFace Posted January 17, 2011 Posted January 17, 2011 Also I was looking at our horoscopes because Im a scorpio and he's a saggitarius we supposedly, have great chemistry, great sex, but were not compatibable what so ever because I want to settle down and he wants to party. **when we were together we used to talk for hours about nothing and the sex was amazingggggg, on both sides and he even texted me nice things like "when we kiss he feels more then just a kiss". **btw it isnt that he's not attracted to me, im a smart sexy young curvy mamacita and I NEVER get turned down!! never. so im feeling really hurt. :/ HELP GUYS! what should I do? just forget about this jerk? or try and work on it? Eh, get over yourself. Anyway - Make sure you are using the new zoidiac.lol-kidding. Seriously horoscopes shouldn't be a decision maker in anything. If he is showing that he is still wanting to party and you want to settle down. That means you two are looking for two completely different things . End it before you get more invested.
refurb Posted January 17, 2011 Posted January 17, 2011 He likes spending time with you and having sex with you, but isn't so interested as to make you a high priority in his life. What do you think of that? RF
Nexus One Posted January 17, 2011 Posted January 17, 2011 He told me that he really liked me and that he just had been busy with work and school but he wasnt going to sit there and beg because he wasnt the type to. He probably really meant that. So in december he ended up texting me telling me he missed me alot, and he didnt know why that happened between us. He probably really meant that. Also I was looking at our horoscopes because Im a scorpio and he's a saggitarius we supposedly, have great chemistry, great sex, but were not compatibable what so ever because I want to settle down and he wants to party. The what? Alchemy. The thing you should try to find out is why he stood you up. He could have forgotten or could have been busy. But you need to tell him that you don't appreciate waiting for someone and them not showing up.
Questionis Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 Let me just say this to you, guys need sex, they need it a lot. There are types of guys will try to resurrect old relationships when all other options are exhausted just to get it. There are guys who seek out girls with low self esteem and tell them lies about themselves so they can keep using them for sex for months, even years at a time. There are other types of guys who seek out a girl they want to be with and work towards having a happy stable relationship with them as they have realised this is a good way to make sure all their needs are met. These are the guys you should be on the look out ignore the rest and use your spare time on realsing your dreams!
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