OOReeee Posted January 16, 2011 Posted January 16, 2011 Not quite sure if it's the best thing to do, since it's been a little over 10 days since my gf and I broke up (mostly came from her) but yeah, I feel I need to have that thing again. Though my ex and I still occasionally talk and I am not fully recovered, I really wanna meet someone else. How long did it take you? has making it too fast made it any better/worst?
new0726 Posted January 16, 2011 Posted January 16, 2011 Took me a year and a half to go on a date after my ex of 3 years left. But that's just me. Good luck! You'll know it's your time when it is.
Ajax Posted January 16, 2011 Posted January 16, 2011 Don't rush into things. You may THINK you're ready to date and then find out that you're not. That will potentially put you in the unenviable positioin of becoming a dumper. Ten days is not a lot of time. I started dating about three months after my ex left thinking I needed to get back out there. I was not ready, and I think the girl I was dating picked up on that. Obviously everyone's different, so if you really do feel ready then go for it. Just be careful, for your own sake and your date's.
cj2 Posted January 16, 2011 Posted January 16, 2011 How long were you together? 10 days is very soon if it was any length of time. Before I found loveshack one of the first things I did after my ex broke up with me was to join a whole load of dating sites, thinking that I needed to get back out there and meet someone. I can't tell you how glad I am that I didn't pursure anything through it. Nothing good would have come out of it at all. Even now, 2 and a half months down the line I think it will take another couple before I am truely reaady to get back out there..
Author OOReeee Posted January 17, 2011 Author Posted January 17, 2011 Ah yes, definitely NOT ready. Saw a girl I dated before I started seeing my ex (for friendship purposed), and although we had a good time, my mind wasn't there, and I kept thinking how I should be with my ex now. Dang.
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