Author jimbo Posted January 19, 2011 Author Posted January 19, 2011 dude, she wants you. badly. I don't care what she says... next time you're in the bed room. rev her up and tap that silly -- then tap it again for good measure. she so wants you to. cheers, mate. nicely done. Not too sure about that. If she were, she'd call when she says she'll call. Said she'd call Sunday, nope, no call. Said she call today, nope, no call. I'll call her Thurs. or Friday and discuss this. As it really bothers me. I am good enough to kiss and make out with, but not good enough for a call once an a while. I do not like to chase, and one would think, since we already talked about this and she said she'd make an effort to communicate more, this would still not be an issue.
East7 Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 That said, I think there is not any romantic attachment yet (for her) - ...................... She maybe attracted sexually at you but you have to make her romantically attracted first if you want a lasting R. Just take it easy and slow, be confident and funny and especially don't behave needy. I reiterate what I initially posted. Jimbo, I think she has some sexual attraction but maybe not romantically attracted yet. You have to work on that part because it is the most important.
Author jimbo Posted January 19, 2011 Author Posted January 19, 2011 I reiterate what I initially posted. Jimbo, I think she has some sexual attraction but maybe not romantically attracted yet. You have to work on that part because it is the most important. How does one do this? If she wasn't attracted to me, she would not be going out with me and certainly not making out with me. So, I am confused.
GivenUp0083 Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 How does one do this? If she wasn't attracted to me, she would not be going out with me and certainly not making out with me. So, I am confused. WRONG WRONG WRONG! Just because she's going out with you and kissing you does NOT mean she is interested enough in you to be with you. I learned this the hard way, this happened to me plenty of times. I'd go on multiple dates with a girl, even make out afterward and I got rejected when it was time to move a little further. You need to spend more time talking to her. Get to know her. Share things with her about yourself, personal things, things you don't tell everyone. Once you get to know each other then maybe she will be attracted to you as a person and romantically, until then you can just enjoy the sex while it lasts or be confused when she dumps you.
sumdude Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 Jimbo, she might be on the fence right now. Time to back off and be a bit of a challenge to test her interest.
Author jimbo Posted January 19, 2011 Author Posted January 19, 2011 We talked about it briefly last night, and she's said she takes a while to warm up, but she's trying. She called last night, and we talked for about an hour. And I called her at lunch today, she had off, and we talked for another hour or so. So I think we are making progress. She also added, she said she's very passive in relationships, and didn't really have to run after guys to call her. I said, well, relationships are a two way street, and with me, you're going to have to be more communicative. She said she will.
Chicago_Guy Posted January 20, 2011 Posted January 20, 2011 WRONG WRONG WRONG! Just because she's going out with you and kissing you does NOT mean she is interested enough in you to be with you. I learned this the hard way, this happened to me plenty of times. I'd go on multiple dates with a girl, even make out afterward and I got rejected when it was time to move a little further. You need to spend more time talking to her. Get to know her. Share things with her about yourself, personal things, things you don't tell everyone. Once you get to know each other then maybe she will be attracted to you as a person and romantically, until then you can just enjoy the sex while it lasts or be confused when she dumps you. You are definitely right about this. If a woman is kind of interested and isn't dating anyone else whom she really likes, she might just date a particular guy just to pass the time. It is a bad sign if a woman doesn't put forth any effort such as failing to call the OP, because the woman can avoid investing too much energy while dating the OP.
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