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I don't want to hijack the other thread, so am posting this in a new one.

 

In what order are your love languages?

 

Mine are:

 

  • Physical touch
  • Words of affirmation
  • Quality time
  • Acts of service
  • Receiving gifts

http://www.5lovelanguages.com/assessments/love/

 

Would you say that your results are fairly accurate?

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Mine are:

 

 

  1. Acts of service
  2. Quality time
  3. Physical touch (tied with quality time)
  4. Words of affirmation
  5. Receiving gifts

I absolutely do think this represents my love language. Actions are so crucial to me. Right next to spending time with them. :bunny:

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1. Score 12 - Physical Touch

2. Score 9 - Quality Time

3. Score 5 - Words of Affirmation

4. Score 3 - Acts of Service

5. Score 1 - Receiving Gifts

 

I think this is very accurate for me.

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1. Score 11--Physical touch

2. Score 10--Quality time

3. Score 5--Acts of service

4. Score 4--Words of affirmation

5. Score 0--Receiving gifts

 

Definitely very accurate. I love receiving and giving affection, and spending time with a person I love. I couldn't care less about gifts--money and/or material things aren't very important to me at all.

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I just did the test and I got:-

 

1, 11 Physical Touch

2, 8 Quality Time

3, 6 Words of Affirmation

4, 3 Acts of Service

5, 2 Receiving Gifts

 

Here is my result.:cool:

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I've actually taken this a few times; for me, Words of Affirmation and Quality Time seem to be tied for first place, as they constantly go back and forth between 1st and 2nd place.

 

Next up:

 

Gifts,

Touch,

Acts of Service.

 

Honestly I suspect the last three swap places around, too. But the top two are definitely accurate for me.

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I have given the test to my daughter and are waiting the results.

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What's with this test, it's like the same question phrased 20 different ways

 

It's like okay I get it I prefer touch to gifts let's move on

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Didn't take the test, but I already know me... physical affection & quality time.

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I don't want to hijack the other thread, so am posting this in a new one.

 

In what order are your love languages?

 

Same as yours! I knew Touch would be top before doing the test, and guessed the next two pairs but wasn't sure what order they would be (they're close in my scores). So, the results are basically what I expected.

 

 

My Scores

12 Physical Touch

8 Words of Affirmation

7 Quality Time

2 Acts of Service

1 Receiving Gifts

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I don't want to hijack the other thread, so am posting this in a new one.

 

In what order are your love languages?

 

Mine are:

 

  • Physical touch
  • Words of affirmation
  • Quality time
  • Acts of service
  • Receiving gifts

http://www.5lovelanguages.com/assessments/love/

 

Would you say that your results are fairly accurate?

 

I found the test a bit annoying so I didn't finish it. But I think my actual list resembles yours, possibly with quality time moving one up and words of affiirmation moving one down. Gifts are not important to me, so maybe that would just go off the list altogether and be replaced with 'gives me space'. I have an above average need for space to myself and time alone, and if I don't get that, I get cranky :o

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I got:

 

Quality time

Physical touch

Words of affirmation

Acts of service

Gifts

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9 Words of Affirmation

9 Physical Touch

5 Receiving Gifts

4 Quality Time

3 Acts of Service

 

I guess that means I'm easy to play. :lmao:

 

Most guys are so awful at gift giving that I'm really touched when a guy puts the thought into giving me something special, especially a well chosen gift. Helping me with practical stuff is nice but doesn't mean as much to me, because I feel like a lot of men use that as a cop out in place of other more direct forms of affection. Also, imo a lot of guys will help with that stuff because they feel obligated to more than out of love. Two exes constantly volunteered to help me with **** and then later guilt-tripped me about it when we broke up. If it truly comes from the heart that's different, but im usually skeptical.

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8 Words of Affirmation

6 Quality Time

2 Receiving Gifts

2 Acts of Service

12 Physical Touch

 

Really, no surprise here.

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5 Words of Affirmation

9 Quality Time

1 Receiving Gifts

8 Acts of Service

7 Physical Touch

 

Sounds about right. I prefer actions over words and the physical and spending time together aspects are very important as well.

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