jaimecat Posted January 16, 2011 Posted January 16, 2011 Im 22 years old and have a crush on a 25 year old who works in a different department at my grad school internship. His boss told me he thought I was cute but hes shy. So I talked to him a few times and once when I said goodbye for the day handed him a piece of paper with my number on it. I was so anxious when I wrote the number however I was one digit off! Apparently he called me that night and again 2 days later and left messages asking me to dinner but it wasnt me so I didnt get it. When I next went to work he had told my boss and his male co worker that I didnt call back and he was wondering why and I felt so bad. I talked to him and cleared it up- said I wouldnt give him my number then ignore him. He said he thought I was playing hard to get. The next time I saw him at our work's holiday luncheon he gave me a box of chocolates and a card in private. I left to go home 2 hrs away for Christmas break but I told him we could talk over break. After a week at being home, I called him since I didnt want him to think Im not interested and we talked for 20 mins. He called again a week and a half later. I called him a few days ago. Each time we talked for an hour. Now, he kept saying tell me when you're back to school so I came back today and told him I was free tomorrow or Monday...and he said "Im booked with football and work those days but how about next weekend?" I was kind of bummed... I have never had a serious bf before, Ive tried but many men are jerks...so I am not sure if hes really into me or not
Questionis Posted January 16, 2011 Posted January 16, 2011 Well he is making an effort to communicate with you and he brought you gift. Just keep talking to him/getting to know him, see where it goes.
Nexus One Posted January 16, 2011 Posted January 16, 2011 (edited) I get the idea he's into you. If he says he has to work or is booked for sports at certain days, then that's probably exactly what he means. He even offered to hook up next weekend. It's rationalism on his part, he doesn't want to neglect work, sports or you, hence he offered to see you next week, that way he can do it all and not neglect any aspect of his life. He's just being practical about his time schedule, no need to panic. Edited January 16, 2011 by Nexus One
soozie86 Posted January 16, 2011 Posted January 16, 2011 Sounds like he really likes you , don't over think things just go with the flow. Meet up with him when you and him are both free and just take things from there.
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