Author Mrlonelyone Posted January 16, 2011 Author Posted January 16, 2011 No, not necessarily right. Perhaps she has a soft spot for the innocence (or age) of your mother and didn't want to hurt her feelings. Uhmm Like I said my mother hasn't said a peep to her via Facebook. Neither have any of my relatives as far as I know. It's so in her nature to be through and very deliberate about everything. I can't see it being accidental. She would sit down, and plan out just what she was going to do...then do it. Like the technician she is. I once told her that the key member of my family to win over was my mother. If big mama likes you everything's good. :\
Art_Critic Posted January 16, 2011 Posted January 16, 2011 more importantly.. what hasn't your Mom blocked/deleted her You could ask your Mom to do that.. then all this wondering is done with.
Author Mrlonelyone Posted January 16, 2011 Author Posted January 16, 2011 (edited) more importantly.. what hasn't your Mom blocked/deleted her You could ask your Mom to do that.. then all this wondering is done with. I don't want to do that. There is sooo much more at stake here than a relationship. Rememeber I very strongly suspect I am the father of my Ex's now seven year old son who I treated as my own for the first year or so of his life. (At a time when I was far less sure about his paternity.)* #1 What I need from her is a relationship that can be built back up into a mature coparenting relationship.* #2 What would be nice is to get back with her and reassemble a family unit. Either way...I'm not going to be the one to close every door and shutter every window to her. *http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t260659/ A thread where I wrote about my efforts in that direction. To secure my paternal rights in court in such a way that they cannot be taken. Unlike what it seems has been done to me so far. In summary to do what it would take would require lawyering up to the tune of a $7500 retainer....that's just to get started. I don't have that kind of money. I'm doing my best. Edited January 16, 2011 by Mrlonelyone
Author Mrlonelyone Posted January 17, 2011 Author Posted January 17, 2011 The woman I mentioned.... the opera singer.... I asked her a couple days ago in a FB email if I could call her, as her # was visible to me. No direct reply but she hid her number from me. Come meet the people I work with. Don't call me. :\ What the hell? :/
Am4Real Posted January 17, 2011 Posted January 17, 2011 It's FACEBOOK, get a life and grow up would be the kindest advice anyone could give you.
Author Mrlonelyone Posted January 17, 2011 Author Posted January 17, 2011 If you read more of the thread you'll see there's much more to it than Facebook. One more time. The woman ask me basically to meet the people she works with... I agree to that...and ask if I can call her on the phone...then she withdraws my ability to see her number. WTH? WTF? What the deuce? Has anyone encountered anything like this? I don't know if I'm gonna be dating this woman, or have just been kicked to the curb?
Am4Real Posted January 17, 2011 Posted January 17, 2011 If you read more of the thread you'll see there's much more to it than Facebook. One more time. The woman ask me basically to meet the people she works with... I agree to that...and ask if I can call her on the phone...then she withdraws my ability to see her number. WTH? WTF? What the deuce? Has anyone encountered anything like this? I don't know if I'm gonna be dating this woman, or have just been kicked to the curb? There are a few thoughts going on in these threads so sorry for jumping over your question if I did. Is it possible she was interested but wanted to take the lead and perhaps have you checked by here friends for some reason only known to her. When you asked for her number and in her mind a means to reach her on your terms it was apparently different from the plan she had. Why not sit back for a bit and see if she tries to contact you or advance another meeting before reading too much into it.
Author Mrlonelyone Posted January 17, 2011 Author Posted January 17, 2011 There are a few thoughts going on in these threads so sorry for jumping over your question if I did. Is it possible she was interested but wanted to take the lead and perhaps have you checked by here friends for some reason only known to her. When you asked for her number and in her mind a means to reach her on your terms it was apparently different from the plan she had. Why not sit back for a bit and see if she tries to contact you or advance another meeting before reading too much into it. I guess that's all I can do for a good while.
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