O.J. Mayo Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 My boy organizes get-togethers at his apartment from time to time. This girl that Im interested in (which is a mutual friend of ours) also gets the regular invite. I go from time to time....... Its been two weeks between the get-together since I saw her so I arrive last of course to his apartment. She opens the door all happy to see me hugs me and kisses me on the cheek (she never did this before, we met eachother a year ago and always just hug+ I saw her 2 weeks ago so its not like she hasnt seen me in a long time) no this wasnt New Years or anything, just a regular day. During one of ours conversations she asks do I wanna travel with her in 2 days to a city we've been to when we met a year ago, then she chuckles. I was caught off guard and asked the reason she's going.....it turns out it was to visit some distant relatives...... I dunno was she serious so I played it like I was uninterested and that was that. The day before I find out from my boy that she always asks if he called me when I dont arrive to a get-together. When we talk she always seems to smile a lot I know for a fact she doesn't have a boyfriend I like this girl but I dont wanna make the first move because if she turns me down I'd be too embarrassed to face any of my friend from that group. It would be too weird for me....... I have no problem asking a girl out I just met or barely know but this is different. So what do you guys and gals think? Im particularly interested in a womans opinion on this matter but guys feel free to chime in
Jazzari Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 If you really want to play it safe, don't go to the next get together. When she asks about you, have your boy flat out ask her if she's interested without letting her know how you feel in return. If she isn't, no harm done and she and your friends are none the wiser. If she is, you can ask her out later. Don't let your boy hook you up. Or you can go with WTF and just take the plunge. It certainly sounds like she's interested.
Author O.J. Mayo Posted January 16, 2011 Author Posted January 16, 2011 Thanks Jazzari, So all I get is one reply and 40 views? Why the cold shoulder? My problem might seem stupid to some but Id like some opinions please
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