damian Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 4 months into my relationship with this girl i find out she has been online chatting to a man 2 hours away. She started it and sent sexy messages. She says she has a problem with low self esteem and this guy gave her attention, and she ruined it because it was going so well and she got scared. Anyway we split and she says she still loves me and hopes this isn't the end. She says she needs time to sort her issues out. I have gone NC and it was hard at first but i know its best for my own sanity. Anyway, if she gets in touch in a few weeks i dont know what to do. She hurt me big time and so many lies. In my opinion you dont lie & cheat on someone you love unless you have serious problems. Which she admits to. Part of me wants her back but the other part says she is just bad and i would get hurt again.
philhatesyourlove Posted January 16, 2011 Posted January 16, 2011 you can't fix insecure girls. Want me to say it again? you can't fix in secure girls. They're self destructive. They gotta change themselves. Either that or she's an attention whore.
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