justletgox51 Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 Well, I went on my friend's account to check on my ex's Facebook. He already deleted me a month ago, but for those who want to know the story-- I've posted about 3 threads on here. Anyway, on his profile picture is him and a girl and with a description that say, "Thanks for cheering me up! :)" And the girl replied with an, "anytime ♥" I know, I know I need to let him go since he was the one who broke it. But sigh. I guess he's happy now with someone else. It's just hard seeing him in the hallways at school and pretend like we don't exist to each other, at all. I guess, I miss him. I want to break NC but for some reason, I don't know what to say... You know what I mean? Plus, he's birthday is coming up which is next month (Valentine's day - ****) and I was considering on calling him and leaving a voicemail to say, "Happy birthday." /: I don't know anymore.
Leandro Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 Well bad for checking the FB. No more checking. I know it hard seeing him in school. Don't break NC for his birthday. Don't waste your time on him anymore. Just stick to NC. You can do it.
DellPickle Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 Well bad for checking the FB. No more checking. I know it hard seeing him in school. Don't break NC for his birthday. Don't waste your time on him anymore. Just stick to NC. You can do it. What she said...I know the urge to break NC or check his FB can be strong...but I learned that 9 times out of 10 you will find something that only makes you feel worse and will make it harder for you to heal.
Leandro Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 What she said... SHE???????? I am a MAN! That's just a picture of Jupiter from Sailor Moon because she's hot.
bl22 Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 SHE???????? I am a MAN! That's just a picture of Jupiter from Sailor Moon because she's hot. hahaha funny
DellPickle Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 SHE???????? I am a MAN! That's just a picture of Jupiter from Sailor Moon because she's hot. haha, sorry...thats the only reason I said she...the avatar jumps out
Buzzkillington Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 Try not to leave that voicemail! Well, I'd try not to anyway. The thing about facebook is that even if you ask a friend to let you check their's out, NOTHING will help on there. They're not going to have put, 'Oh God I miss -' (Almost certainly), which is about the only thing which would cheer you up... There could be: Happy stuff - which makes you think 'oh God they're so happy without me', etc. Neutral stuff (work, college, or just random crap, videos etc), which makes you just think they don't wonder about you at all and that their moving on is so easy. Or sad stuff, which makes you want to reach out because that's what you would have done when you two were together obviously - except now the comments will usually include some from their love interest (In both of our cases) or potential love interests who they might be interested in. I don't want to see that, big time. No one wants to see ANY of the above things! Innocent things like 'Xs' and crappy typed hearts become horrible when really they shouldn't mean anything... they're not even real. This is a hundred million times worse when you know who their new partner is!
Author justletgox51 Posted January 15, 2011 Author Posted January 15, 2011 I guess so, but the part that's bringing me down is the fact that I see him every day for school in the hallways and we just pretend like we don't exist. Sometimes I wish he'd transfer schools or me, but we both love this school. And not leaving a voicemal message to say, "happy birthday," May I just wonder why I shouldn't? I'm thinking of not doing it but I just want opinions.
Hannah86 Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 Definitely do not wish him a happy birthday. One of the good things about facebook is, you can look at the person's pictures over and over again with their new boyfriend/girlfriend...but the next day, you're a little more used to the idea. The more you see it, the less it affects you. You can cry at home or scream in your pillow, which you can't do when you see the couple in person. I definitely don't think it's bad that you checked. Now that he is dating someone else, it would be a HORRIBLE idea for you to text him. He will show his girlfriend and it will strengthen his relationship with her. He might make fun of you. You're not marking your territory, you're proving his point to his girlfriend that you are "soooooo not over him." Time heals all, I promise!! In a few months you'll wonder why you cared at all, and you will be SO glad you didn't text him.
Author justletgox51 Posted January 15, 2011 Author Posted January 15, 2011 He's not dating anyone (most likely) but the girl on the picture I guess comforted him when he was sad at the library. Cos the background was at our school library and the description he put on his profile picture was, "Thanks for cheering me up! :)" And the girl commented with, "Anytime! ♥" But sigh. Man, I hope time comes to me soon enough to heal and laugh as to why I cared so much about him!
500daysofsummer Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 SHE???????? I am a MAN! That's just a picture of Jupiter from Sailor Moon because she's hot. you need to change that picture man. i thought you were a girl too
Leandro Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 you need to change that picture man. i thought you were a girl too OK OK, I fixed it.
TaraMaiden Posted January 16, 2011 Posted January 16, 2011 From the sublime to the Cor Blimey nuclear....!
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