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if u are not in love but have the perfect girl?


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I am in a situation. I an divorced with a child. No barring. I met this girl who is perfect. I mean awesome. I can go out with the guys when ever She lets me do anything. Really.. my problem is that I dont have that butterfly feeling. Or the I want to be with u every second. I live less tgan a mile from her and see her a couple times a week. She wants more .. I dobt blame her. Really. I do love her but not in love I think. Do I break it off?

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My initial thought is that she deserves to be with someone who is in love with her. But that places a lot of importance on being in love and butterfly feelings.

 

If those things are important to you and you need to feel them in a long-term relationship, even if only for the honeymoon period, then it sounds like Miss Good-on-paper is not good enough.

 

What you wouldn't want to do is to break it off and then later discover that, actually, you miss her and want her back.

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