sirweasles Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 If you feel the need to rag on sombody dont like what you read in sombodys post or just feel like accusing others of sh*t. Please by all means do it on this thread with out using names or any indicators of who it is the people on this site come for advice and comfort explain how calling sombody a lier or a cheater or anything else unpleasant is giving them comfort please learn to talk politely and with cuth before trying to help sombody out this way its cruel they are already in alot of pain and feel that there worl has ended then they think they find an outlet and bam LS people are attacking them so please people if you wanna bitch change names and sinerios enough to not give away who you bit*hen about and bi*ch away on this thread.
Art_Critic Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 Alright MissWeasles.... I'm bitching about some guy poster named John.. the green guy can't even get it right.. all he ever does is be mean to me on threads and makes me want to cry.. eff'ng jerk.. how dare he/she make me cry... Whew.. that feels better.. thanks
hopesndreams Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 When I call a spade a spade someone reports it. You wouldn't know anything about that now would you weasel? Whooooops, no names. Too funny!
johan Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 There's some guy on here called Bart. He's a real critic. Something about that clown makes me want to break out the fly swatter and start swinging.
Author sirweasles Posted January 15, 2011 Author Posted January 15, 2011 hopes you know i have read excellent advice from you and i know you are sincere but ive seen you comment were i knew if it had been me you were commenting too when i first joined i would have never returned and this site has helped me with so much stress I was suicidaly depressed and am still fighting to ensure i dont get that way again 2 weeks after i joined LS i was admited to the hospital and it probably saved my life the only thing that kept me alive in that worst month of my life was the encoragement and kind words of the LS community. In my opinnion it is ok to question sombodys motives 1 time and if the person doesnt respond in a good way then you need to leave them alone let others respond there is no need to continually harass anybody whatsoever. I have never seen you too overly harass anybody but I have seen others who do and wont listen to anything they just keep it up eventually they will chase members off and we will lose parts of our support another voice another outlook we need to stick together not ripe each other apart more than we are already torn
Art_Critic Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 sirweasles.. you are right that some people would get run off if some posters harass them.. heck .. I would've too.. I will always stick up for a poster if they are being harassed (unless it's that john guy ) but..... Telling a person what they want to hear isn't always the best way to help them...sometimes an unadulterated viewpoint from an uninterested party is what they need to get on the road to recovery and some people might feel it is harsh but in reality it is just right as long as it isn't harassing.. I'm glad that you got thru your rough patch sirweasles and are posting to help people.. Good to see you here
What_Next Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 My advice, develop a think skin... I've traded paint with more than one member of LS. I've also dropped the hammer when it needed to be dropped. Heck I've had my own a$$ handed to me by some of the posters here in this very thread. So? It's not personal. The topic we discuss here on LS are emotional to say the very least. When a line is crossed the mods will step in (I've had my hand slapped before, I'll get over it...).
tinktronik Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 There are some days wen I am tempted to create a male persona to come here and make wild perceptions about what women do an do not like, something along the lines of hanibal lecter.... Oh, wait that persona is already in use.
Author sirweasles Posted January 15, 2011 Author Posted January 15, 2011 the big point im putting out here is if you it has gone far enough that you have been asked to not respond anymore or the just out of the blue calling a bran new member a lier kinda not cool. we gotto look out for each other i like to think of this as the LS family we stick together and yes we point out the hard truths but we dont need to follow people around through all there threads and harass them i should never hear that so and so has been saying rude stuff to so and so even on so and so's other threads. to me it starts to look as though the person trying to make the other person wake up and see the hard facts is actually the person who needs to wake up you can say it once and its trying to help you can remind a second time and its still trying to help but if you they havnt picked up on it then move on plenty of other posters that need advice. I will be straight out I blame my entire seperation on me I know it takes two however i only have control over me so i take blame and i fix me my wife will do what she chooses and its more likely to turn out better for me if ive taken the propper measures to work on me. to every story there is another side fortunatly we only get one side other words there would be alot of fighting lol. we can only give one sided advice we are not here to judge others and we are not here to try to decide the fate of anybody we all came here for advice. one of the first things you can almost always expect on any new first time thread is with in the first few responses is another LS member telling them there spouce is cheating on them. not sure about any of you but in order to straighten my head and calm down that is not what i want to here however if you post on here i think you need to be ready for those responses. There are things that come with the territory and there are things that should really stop happening this being said. this thread is for the purpose of just letting it all out but please if you have somthing to let out that could potentialy hurt another ls members feelings please reword and rename so that we get your point with out anybody bein able to figure out who you are talkin about Thanks Guys and sorry im trying to work on me and get frusterated when i see some of this sh*t
tobydog1 Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 You are right! I think too that this is a virtual reality and what people write/ read is not always how they are. People write things in great distress and some may get the wrong idea. I have been called an abusive attention seeking whore when nothing is further from the truth. If they could see me in real life they may see that I am in fact quite ordinary but with a few problems! Cheers for all your support SW x
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