isitme1 Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 here is my story if you care to read it...please click on my profile to read more about my situation.. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t258127/ So i get home and I find a letter from my ex...its been over a month or so that I have not contacted my ex for any reason...I am giving her what she wanted...tie & space...I have been pretty much just trying to figure myself...I have started going to the gym 3x a day for 2 weeks...going to therapy, spending time w/my family and so forth..I haven't gone out...the jist of the card is..I have been in her thoughts & prayers, she has so many regrets (started dating some else who she works with a few days after our talk), her main regret is how she treated me, she tells me I am a good man that she never meat to hurt, my kindness was never questioned and that my xmas gifts were amazing & they mean alot to her, she realizes that that I put a lot of time & thought into them, she says she doesnt deserve them and thanks me, I will continue to be in her thoughts & prayers, and the big topper i get a thank you for being a part of her life and the amazing gifts. I dont understand why i got this card? why didn't she text me? I wanted to text or call her and give her what I thought but i am not. I miss her dearly, but its more important for me for her to be happy with what she wants? I had a weird feeling that I would hear from her but just didn't know how she would contact me. anyone knows what all this means? what if she contacts me again? I am still doing NC...I know deep down I am not ready to talk to her and go backwards w/my emotions...I am caring a lot about her that I have been letting go slowly...maybe it was her way of getting closure by sending a card instead of contacting via phone. Maybe this means I am out of her life for good!
Leandro Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 She didn't say anything about getting back together, did she? No, so don't break NC. She just wrote that letter because she felt bad and wanted to make your feel a little better. Do you really thing she will think of you and pray for you? Most don't. She's with someone else now. Don't waste your time. Stick to NC. You can do it .
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