ames Posted January 14, 2011 Posted January 14, 2011 i know i have already posted...but didn't get many responses... what does it mean when a person says that they like you but they're not ready for a relationship, but they still want to hang out with you and they message/call you everyday? Please don't say they are just using you..
creighton0123 Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 They like you, find that they're attracted to you, but don't want a romantic/physical relationship with you. They appreciate your company and only want to remain friends.
tigressA Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 What it means is that they don't want a relationship with you. If you want a relationship, quit wasting time with someone who tells you point-blank they don't want one. End of story.
SmileFace Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 It means they're not ready for a relationship. Do yourself a favor and listen when people talk. It doesn't matter what it may mean - or what we think it may mean. We all know it means he is not ready for a relationship.
Author ames Posted January 15, 2011 Author Posted January 15, 2011 i am listening to what he is saying. I meant why do ppl bother wanting to spend time with you if nothing is going to develop anyway? He rings me, texts me and still tells me that he likes me..i'm just confused, thats all..everyone calm down lol:lmao:
Lemontang Posted January 16, 2011 Posted January 16, 2011 Believe it or not but some guys are perfectly happy being just friends with a girl...it is possible. I have a number of friends who are girls that I hang out with purely as friends (and no benefits either, especially now since I'm taken), and it's no different to hanging out with the lads. Though I'm often told I'm a great listener, have a keen sense of fashion with clothes & shoes, and I'm perfectly honest when I go shopping with them "yes your butt does look big in that, and yes that perfume smells like an old bag lady" yeah I'm brutally honest...and shock horror I'm not gay either
Author ames Posted January 16, 2011 Author Posted January 16, 2011 lol cool i have male friends also, but him and i like each other..so its different
Romance Posted January 16, 2011 Posted January 16, 2011 I was like this when i first was talking to my boyfriend I just wasnt ready to commit to him. I eventually did after 3 months or so of talking and texting
Ometeotl Posted January 16, 2011 Posted January 16, 2011 How old are you? I ask this because, you seem to have this level of irrational, highly emotional attachment that you want rationalized yet you are not willing to accept. Move on lady! It is what is best for both you!
sothis Posted January 16, 2011 Posted January 16, 2011 to me it sounds like maybe he's not sure if he's really into you and perhaps keeping his options open untill he decides or someone he likes more comes along....lame i know, but it's thie vibe i get.
Author ames Posted January 16, 2011 Author Posted January 16, 2011 i don't think age matters. I just have feelings for him. Oh well, i'll get over it! Of course i feel emotionally attached to him. Thanks everyone
oaks Posted January 16, 2011 Posted January 16, 2011 i know i have already posted...but didn't get many responses... what does it mean when a person says that they like you but they're not ready for a relationship, but they still want to hang out with you and they message/call you everyday? Please don't say they are just using you.. There might not be anything in what it means behind the words - perhaps he means that he likes you but isn't ready for a relationship with you. If it makes a difference to you, you could ask him "did you mean not ever or just not yet?" If you're enjoying hanging out with him, and you're not expecting a relationship to happen, then go with it. If you need to find someone for a relationship then look elsewhere.
depplover_1980 Posted January 16, 2011 Posted January 16, 2011 Let him know about other dates etc and it will soon become apparent whether he wants to step up, nothing like a bit of competition to make a man decide whether he wants you or not!! Don't do it in a game play way but as he is your 'friend' then talk to him about the dating scene as you do with all your others friends and I believe all will be revealed quickly.
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