aspirepranesh Posted January 14, 2011 Posted January 14, 2011 Hey guys... Am relatively new to the forum, as I thought I might need some insight on this. I will try to keep it short as possible. I met this girl back in July 09, and for some reason, we hit it off straight away. FYI, I am very picky when it comes to the girls I date (which left me wondering why on earth I fell for her from the very first time I met her). I got introduced to her through a relatively new friend (who is currently an ex gf of a best mate) of mine as they were flat mates. We exchanged nos, added each other on fb, started talking to each other pretty much all the time everyday. We started hanging out a lot and we both agreed that its best that her flatmate and my friend doesnt know about this. We both definitely had a liking for each other. For some unknown reason, I sent her a message asking her she liked me, she said she does. & She asked me back the same question, and I gave her the obvious answer. But I told her that I wasn't sure if it was the time to get into a relationship (which sounded dumb as I initiated the conversation)! I knew straight away that it put her off, and I thought about it all night and told her that it was a mistake I did, as I knew that I liked her a lot and despite the troubles I was going through at that point of time, I wanted to be with her. Next day, I met her and apologised for being an idiot, and said that I wanted to be in a relationship with her. She was happy about it, but over the next few weeks, my stupidity came back to bite me and she broke the whole thing off. and she suddenly decided to stop talking to me. I found it hard as I knew this was a girl I felt that I should have in my life, but nothing worked to fix the issue. Alcohol fuelled nights made things worse, where I was ringing her in the middle of the night to apoligize and see if I could get her back. It was pretty hard to wipe her no off my head. She was obviously pissed off, and wasnt responding to my calls, removed me off fb, and totally cut me off her life. Eventually, after 3 months, in Mar 2010, I managed to some how break free and move on. I did date a few girls after that, but was never really into anyone as I was with her. But once in a while, I did end up talking about her to my best mates. Couple of weeks back, I brought up her name again when my mates suggested that I should talk to her again. I sent her a msg on facebook to see how she was doing, and to my surprise, got a positive response. She seems to be interested in talking to me, and she added me on fb couple of days back after I sent her a friend invite. I have never had second chances in life in anything! But I am feeling a lot of energy now that I am back in touch with her. But I dont want to force things to happen. At the same time, I am just wondering if she is wanting to get back together? I mean, here's a girl who did not want to talk to me at all an year back, but obviously time has changed things, and now we are talking again. But I know I want her in my life irrespective of what ever I am going through. But where and how are things supposed to go from here? Do apologize for the long story! I appreciate you for taking the time to read this and reply! I definitely need some insight into this. Thanks
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