AcaciaStrain Posted January 13, 2011 Posted January 13, 2011 Been going out with this girl for 2 years now, the last couple of months i was a right dick and treated her like ****, but didnt mean too. She broke up with me about 3 months ago and now we're back together. I love her so much and the last month has been so hard. I'm really paranoid that she doesnt love me because she's acting differently. But last weekend she told my mate that she loved me so much and we both went back to hers and had sex. It felt like we had finally got back into each other and made each other happy. This week has been weird. One of my friends likes her and keeps talking to her, and it seems like she likes him aswell, but i can't tell if she does or not. And then she tells me to stop looking at her phone and stuff and says she needs space. What should i do?
Cuchara2 Posted January 13, 2011 Posted January 13, 2011 I had part of this problem. One of my "friends" (who I realise is a total prick now) kept on hitting on my ex and looking at me whilst doing it. Of course she was oblivious to the fact that he liked her because she's the most naive person I've met in my life, so she made it look like she liked him too. Thing is, she never did because he's a complete loser and he'd never have the balls to ask her out anyway. Tell her you need to talk, you don't feel very happy about her feelings and sort it out. Only talking will sort things out. It may lead her to breaking up with you again, but in my eyes it's better than having this.
Author AcaciaStrain Posted January 13, 2011 Author Posted January 13, 2011 She's talking alot better to me today like interested n stuff. She doesnt flirt with this guy infront of me and said if she liked him she wouldn't of got back with me. Think it's just me being paranoid. But it's going to take a loong healing process to be back to the normal relationship i had. I realise i've hurt her alot, and i keep telling her everyday i'm not going to do it again and that i've changed.
Author AcaciaStrain Posted January 13, 2011 Author Posted January 13, 2011 Although i think she's going out with him tonight but with other friends aswell, and doesn't seem to want me there. :/
Author AcaciaStrain Posted January 14, 2011 Author Posted January 14, 2011 I know somethings up, last night she was talking to him till about 3 in the morning, didnt even give me eye contact when we was out. But when we're alone she's fine with me. Even my mates are acting weird. So confused. This is physically and mentally hurting me real bad, haven't eaten properly in like 10 days..
Author AcaciaStrain Posted January 14, 2011 Author Posted January 14, 2011 I can't i love her too much. And i know she has feelings for me still.
Author AcaciaStrain Posted January 16, 2011 Author Posted January 16, 2011 Sigh, last night we was out as a group, and she kept staring at my mate (the one i think she likes) every now and again. She stared at me but not as often. And when i woke up she got a text from him saying something like "What was it, something important, just say yes or no xxx" Me and mate are practically the same in looking terms so i dunno wtf is going on. I think it's because he was there for her when i was being a dick. God i hate myself sometimes, wish i could've changed earlier.
KYoung2200 Posted January 16, 2011 Posted January 16, 2011 Sigh, last night we was out as a group, and she kept staring at my mate (the one i think she likes) every now and again. She stared at me but not as often. And when i woke up she got a text from him saying something like "What was it, something important, just say yes or no xxx" Me and mate are practically the same in looking terms so i dunno wtf is going on. I think it's because he was there for her when i was being a dick. God i hate myself sometimes, wish i could've changed earlier. Don't blame yourself. Honestly, if she didn't do it now, she would have done it later.
damian Posted January 16, 2011 Posted January 16, 2011 "i need space" always means "there is another guy".
Author AcaciaStrain Posted January 16, 2011 Author Posted January 16, 2011 Don't blame yourself. Honestly, if she didn't do it now, she would have done it later. Done what? I'm so confused because she tells all my mates that she loves me..
Author AcaciaStrain Posted January 18, 2011 Author Posted January 18, 2011 Well, she's done what i've been fearing for the last month. She's Dump me saying that she still loves me but not the proper love she used to have or something along those lines.
Author AcaciaStrain Posted January 19, 2011 Author Posted January 19, 2011 I don't think im going to get over her.. She's my first love. We have the same group of friends live near eachother and work in the same place. The worst thing she said was that she never get butterflys when she kisses me anymore. I dunno what to do because i got exams next week and i can't think about anything but her. WE still love eachother and the pain is soo much because i know it's my fault that it's become this way.
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