SoMovinOn Posted January 13, 2011 Posted January 13, 2011 I was just reading a first time post, and I was thinking we could save first time posters a lot of typing by providing a fill in the blanks form, or something where they can click a check box to insert standard phrases. It didn't start this way... I know it sounds crazy... We're soul mates... We laugh together so much... He/She says their relationship with their spouse is more like roommates... I didn't know he/she was married at first... He/She says he/she has never cheated on their spouse before me... The sex is amazing... I know some A's involve different scenarios, but it seems a majority of them fall into a pretty "standard" category.
pureinheart Posted January 13, 2011 Posted January 13, 2011 I was just reading a first time post, and I was thinking we could save first time posters a lot of typing by providing a fill in the blanks form, or something where they can click a check box to insert standard phrases. It didn't start this way.. it didn't I know it sounds crazy...it was We're soul mates...nope We laugh together so much...we did, I yelled a lot too He/She says their relationship with their spouse is more like roommates...they were, they hated each other I didn't know he/she was married at first...I knew homeboy was M He/She says he/she has never cheated on their spouse before me...they were both serial cheaters The sex is amazing...I wouldn't know I know some A's involve different scenarios, but it seems a majority of them fall into a pretty "standard" category. I couldn't help myself...this is cool SMO:D
alexandria35 Posted January 13, 2011 Posted January 13, 2011 Okay, how about... He/She has never lied to me Didn't mean to hurt anyone He/She doesn't have sex with spouse Never meant for this to happen He/She is leaving when the kids grow up/finish school/have grandchildren
pureinheart Posted January 13, 2011 Posted January 13, 2011 (edited) Okay, how about... He/She has never lied to me he always lied, especially when his mouth was moving Didn't mean to hurt anyone I wanted to hurt him He/She doesn't have sex with spouse they didn't because they couldn't stand the sight of each other Never meant for this to happen he meant for it to happen, serial cheaters are like that He/She is leaving when the kids grow up/finish school/have grandchildren well he left (because she couldn't stand him), but it was only because he could keep his stuff Still, I could not help myself again...hey at least I stayed on topic! I'm bad, but really, isn't it deserved...a little bit Edited January 13, 2011 by pureinheart
GreenEyedLady Posted January 14, 2011 Posted January 14, 2011 You know, I realize that a lot of people are hurting because their R didn't turn out they wanted/expected or they acted contrary to their own set of values. But I don't think you should put a R that anyone felt so much love or emotion down and try to say it didn't matter or it wasn't special. What you've written could apply to ANY relationship in which the people cared for each other. Including A LOT of MARRIAGES! Learn what you need to from your R's. Don't be cynical. People are put in our lives to love and learn from. To discount what you felt for someone else because it was against your values, doesn't right a wrong. It just leads you away from the true message you need to hear. ((HUGS))
Heather1 Posted January 14, 2011 Posted January 14, 2011 You know, I realize that a lot of people are hurting because their R didn't turn out they wanted/expected or they acted contrary to their own set of values. But I don't think you should put a R that anyone felt so much love or emotion down and try to say it didn't matter or it wasn't special. What you've written could apply to ANY relationship in which the people cared for each other. Including A LOT of MARRIAGES! Learn what you need to from your R's. Don't be cynical. People are put in our lives to love and learn from. To discount what you felt for someone else because it was against your values, doesn't right a wrong. It just leads you away from the true message you need to hear. ((HUGS)) Thank you.....there's a lot of stereotypical emotions that happen w/ anything & thank God for that so we don't all have to go it alone. I'd love to be unique in my feelings & situation, on this end, I'm glad I'm not the only one.
dont-be-naive Posted January 14, 2011 Posted January 14, 2011 I was just reading a first time post, and I was thinking we could save first time posters a lot of typing by providing a fill in the blanks form, or something where they can click a check box to insert standard phrases. It didn't start this way... doesn't matter how it "starts" I know it sounds crazy... but I won't cheat on you like I am cheating on spouse:rolleyes: We're soul mates... until the newness wears off We laugh together so much... I laugh at Lisa Lampanelli, but I don't want her He/She says their relationship with their spouse is more like roommates... well sure, you think they'd get in your pants if they said otherwise? (ok, maybe they still would) I didn't know he/she was married at first... "but now that I do know, its ok with me" He/She says he/she has never cheated on their spouse before me... how else are they gonna make you feel special? The sex is amazing... usually is when its new, and especially taboo.
Recommended Posts