cool_buzz Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 Hi, My girlfriend is so sensitive and she keeps getting upset with me on stupid little things and she cries so much and stops talking to me ... acts so bratty ... I am really really pissed! I've to fake that I'm terribly sorry and she makes me crave for her forgiveness and some solid sucking up to her ..and a lot of mushy mushy crap before she gets fine. I hate not being myself and doing this fake drama just to keep my relationship. I dnt knw how to fix this problem!!!! If I try to communicate it to her she will be upset and make things more miserable. Help!!!
Untouchable_Fire Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 Hi, My girlfriend is so sensitive and she keeps getting upset with me on stupid little things and she cries so much and stops talking to me ... acts so bratty ... I am really really pissed! I've to fake that I'm terribly sorry and she makes me crave for her forgiveness and some solid sucking up to her ..and a lot of mushy mushy crap before she gets fine. I hate not being myself and doing this fake drama just to keep my relationship. I dnt knw how to fix this problem!!!! If I try to communicate it to her she will be upset and make things more miserable. Help!!! Dump her! I know that sounds cliche... but damn she sounds terrible. Usually her acting like that means she has no respect for you. Wont be long and it will kill her attraction to you. Show her that you wont accept this behavior.
mo mo Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 This problem isn't really your fault, it's just her personality. Things like this take a long time to change, if they ever do at all.
ConflictedGuy27 Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 if it's fixable you'll have to dump her to get it to happen. tell her you need to talk. go to a coffee shop. sit, but don't order anything you don't want thrown on you. tell her why it's not working out. tell her you can't be friends. tell her you still care for her though & wish her well. then bail. then ignore her. then stop ignoring her, after a week. if she calls take it. if she wants to talk say fine. have her meet you at the same place you broke up with her. if she shows up, you won. discuss your expectations. tell her if she acts [fill in way you don't want her to] it's over. have wild make up sex. then see how it goes.
ivalm Posted January 13, 2011 Posted January 13, 2011 if it's fixable you'll have to dump her to get it to happen. tell her you need to talk. go to a coffee shop. sit, but don't order anything you don't want thrown on you. tell her why it's not working out. tell her you can't be friends. tell her you still care for her though & wish her well. then bail. then ignore her. then stop ignoring her, after a week. if she calls take it. if she wants to talk say fine. have her meet you at the same place you broke up with her. if she shows up, you won. discuss your expectations. tell her if she acts [fill in way you don't want her to] it's over. have wild make up sex. then see how it goes. ^^^ Really nice advice
Author cool_buzz Posted January 13, 2011 Author Posted January 13, 2011 if it's fixable you'll have to dump her to get it to happen. tell her you need to talk. go to a coffee shop. sit, but don't order anything you don't want thrown on you. tell her why it's not working out. tell her you can't be friends. tell her you still care for her though & wish her well. then bail. then ignore her. then stop ignoring her, after a week. if she calls take it. if she wants to talk say fine. have her meet you at the same place you broke up with her. if she shows up, you won. discuss your expectations. tell her if she acts [fill in way you don't want her to] it's over. have wild make up sex. then see how it goes. This sounds like something I can work with .. its scary since I don't want to lose her... thanks a lot for the advise!
Billy_Boy Posted January 13, 2011 Posted January 13, 2011 Before you resort to all that manipulation, can you give us some examples on her brattiness? What mushy crap?
Els Posted January 13, 2011 Posted January 13, 2011 if it's fixable you'll have to dump her to get it to happen. tell her you need to talk. go to a coffee shop. sit, but don't order anything you don't want thrown on you. tell her why it's not working out. tell her you can't be friends. tell her you still care for her though & wish her well. then bail. then ignore her. then stop ignoring her, after a week. if she calls take it. if she wants to talk say fine. have her meet you at the same place you broke up with her. if she shows up, you won. discuss your expectations. tell her if she acts [fill in way you don't want her to] it's over. have wild make up sex. then see how it goes. That's just such a lame game. OP, just sit her down and tell her firmly that this cannot continue - she MUST sit down with you and discuss this matter like an adult or you're out. Give her that chance, but be resolute in your decision to leave if she refuses.
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