1956 Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 been seeing a girl for roughly 5 weeks, initially nice time spent together and great make outs, we took about three weeks before sex. with holidays and what not we don't get together more than two maybe three times a week. she is busier than me these days so i usually let her initiate contact as not to interrupt anything she has going on. this past weekend we spent a day and a half together going out, spent the night, sex, running errands, cooking together, hanging in general. during our time together over the weekend she mentioned (i.e. maybe joking) referring to me as her boyfriend. later that night i casually brought up her boyfriend reference and she said "i don't know" which i responded embarrassingly "forget i even brought it up". eventhough we spent the entire next day and evening together since then she has had very little contact with me despite normally at the very least saying good morning or asking how my day is going and today nothing at all, this is a bit unusual. was i out of line? should i chalk it up to she's just busy with her own stuff? am i missing something or over thinking things? how do i approach things now? any insight would be helpful
welikeincrowds Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 The reason is immaterial. The boyfriend comment never happened -- you told her to forget it; listen to your own advice. If the trend you are noticing in her behavior continues, ask her what's up. Be non-confrontational and don't volunteer reasons.
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