sanlucascerveza Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 ok. she says she had a great time right after. now when she used to text/call daily, since the night of the date it hasnt happened. Is this a game shes trying to play or what?
january2011 Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 What happens after you initiate a text/call?
mortensorchid Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 Have you called her? Even once since the first encounter?
welikeincrowds Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 "I had a great time" right after is code for "I want you to call me again"
Dilusional Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 ok. she says she had a great time right after. now when she used to text/call daily, since the night of the date it hasnt happened. Is this a game shes trying to play or what? The fact is when you first meet a girl its just that, you're a random new person in their face and you are not significant even if it were a first date. They dont really know you, theyve just met you, they may have just gotten out of a relationship etc etc. So naturally youre not the priority, but through time you can be. Like people told me in my own thread, you have to keep it moving! NO sense thinking about a girl when she has no interest in you anyway, I shall get a better girl muahaha!, sorry i know im not funny Have you tried calling her?
ConflictedGuy27 Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 "why would a girl stop initiating contact after Awesome date?" because it wasn't awesome, genius... prepare to dissect your date, because you're mistaken. she wasn't diggin' it.
mo mo Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 "why would a girl stop initiating contact after Awesome date?" because it wasn't awesome, genius... prepare to dissect your date, because you're mistaken. she wasn't diggin' it. Either that or it was so awesome she is scared of you. I know that's a screwed up way to think about it but after hanging around this site for the past month or so I know it's possible.
Dilusional Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 Either that or it was so awesome she is scared of you. I know that's a screwed up way to think about it but after hanging around this site for the past month or so I know it's possible. One date doesn't really mean anything im afraid:confused:. She could of been bored and chose to hang with you that day. Or, she may not even be looking for a relationship, or have someone else she likes but she wanted somoene to aquaint her that day etc etc . If you just met her as stated, then youre not significant, end of story really.
ivalm Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 ok. she says she had a great time right after. now when she used to text/call daily, since the night of the date it hasnt happened. Is this a game shes trying to play or what? Try to contact her once, if that fails, move on.
carhill Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 OP, you say she 'used to call/text daily' before the date, but nada after. Correct? What have you been doing, proactively? A couple examples would be 'asking her out on a date before saying goodbye on the successful date' and 'calling her to make a new date'. Sitting on your hands doesn't get you a girlfriend unless you're universally attractive. You aren't, are you? So, then, get busy. If no joy with her, move on to the next one. They don't bite, much
GivenUp0083 Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 "why would a girl stop initiating contact after Awesome date?" because it wasn't awesome, genius... prepare to dissect your date, because you're mistaken. she wasn't diggin' it. Couldn't have said it any better... Unfortunately this used to happen to me all the time, only it would happen after date #3 or date #5. I guess my experience tells me those dates don't mean jack either, lol.
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