moredeborah Posted January 11, 2011 Posted January 11, 2011 Quick backstory: btwn 16-23 I was in a long term relationship, took a year off and found a great guy then from 24-29 we had a wonderful time living together but mutually ended it because our needs changed over the years. I'm 29 years old and single... and FREE! And that's great. But now, I feel directionless. What should I do? Should I travel? Should I make music? Should I go back to school? I don't know what I want anymore. I have a good job and have the option of living with my mom to save money for SOMETHING. Or I could move to the big city! Or I could stay where I'm at and be as social as ever. I know this isn't a big problem. I just feel so empty now that the big love of my life over. So my question is this: what would you do?
daphne Posted January 11, 2011 Posted January 11, 2011 So my question is this: what would you do? The real question is what wouldn't you do? The possibilities are endless. Have fun. Try a lot of new things. Make friends, meet people. Try new hobbies, sports. Be excited that you have time to make yourself happy, because next year this time who knows if you'll be in another long term relationship. You don't have to make any decisions right now until you feel ready. Enjoy it. Being single can be a lot of fun if you can learn to live life fully. You'll figure out what you want eventually. But to get there, you need to experience a lot.
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