lee123 Posted January 11, 2011 Posted January 11, 2011 (edited) asically we've been friends for about 2 months, she doesn't live round my area, but not too far. She was an online friend. She decided wanted to come see me, so i agreed. It went great, first we cuddled in bed (which i assume is what more than a friend would do). We did go out to cinema etc. It was all good. She went home, i told her how i feel. Like i feel like i'm growing to like you more than a friend. She said, it's too soon for her. I asked when she'd like to meet up next, she said in march for her birthday. And says she needs to do college work. Thats a long time to wait :/ am i just rushing things, cause i like her more or does she just think of me as a friend? It's really bugging me, cause i wanna see her sooner than that, but i don't want to like suggest it, if you know what i mean. Yeah this is the thread from another thing, (just to tell you the story) but i need help cause i really can't cope. She's always on my mind, i haven't heard from her in like 1 day, things don't feel the same as before. Should i just stop talking to her and move on, cause i feel hurt and i don't think she feels the same. Cause i mean, if she liked me, she'd atleast contact me right. Although i have got a new phone and she hasn't got my number, but she could of easily Facebook messaged me. Edited January 11, 2011 by lee123
D78 Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 Is it possible she's just really busy with college work, and couldn't contact you today? No matter how wrapped up you are with someone, you have to be able to remain calm after 24 hours of her not contacting you. She didn't really break up with you; she just said take it slow. She might want you to come see her, but doesn't want to ignore you to take care of school things. Is she serious about doing well in school? FB is kinda a time-suck. When I was in college, I had no time for it (but that's waaayyy back in 2004, when FB was not an app on a smart phone, may be a moot point now). Maybe you could FB message her and give her your new number, so if she wants to contact you she can. Just some thoughts.
Author lee123 Posted January 12, 2011 Author Posted January 12, 2011 Is it possible she's just really busy with college work, and couldn't contact you today? No matter how wrapped up you are with someone, you have to be able to remain calm after 24 hours of her not contacting you. She didn't really break up with you; she just said take it slow. She might want you to come see her, but doesn't want to ignore you to take care of school things. Is she serious about doing well in school? FB is kinda a time-suck. When I was in college, I had no time for it (but that's waaayyy back in 2004, when FB was not an app on a smart phone, may be a moot point now). Maybe you could FB message her and give her your new number, so if she wants to contact you she can. Just some thoughts. well i thought if she was interested, she'd like to see me before march? :/ what do i do, if she doesn't message me today :/?
KYoung2200 Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 Let her contact you. If you seem desperate she will be turned away.
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