Adi Posted January 11, 2011 Posted January 11, 2011 Hi, the question in my head was this, when me and my ex broke up, how will i ever feel better, if she is not in my life, what will 1 year or even 4 years do if she aint there i will never be happy again. I would like too add she was my third serious girlfriend, and i new she was the one, i loved with all my heart, and i did at the beging feel rough, i never had too many mates, she just seemed too be ok straight away. Six months later and for about two months now, i feel good, i still dont have a girlfriend, and i am not planning too for at least another six months, i just date about two times a month, just too stay in the game. My point is, if i can overcome the pain, so can anyone else, im truely a much happier person, i wish my ex well, and i hope too fall in love again, but untill then just enjoy finding out who you are. Last night i got 2 comedy films, some beers and laugh all night, and you no i thought theese are good times, good luck.
Fern Posted January 11, 2011 Posted January 11, 2011 Thanks Adi - these kind of positive threads are my favourite. I too am feeling MUCH better. My split happened about 5 1/2 months ago and I truly can see light at the end of the tunnel now. I feel good mostly and he's no longer the first and last thing I think about every day.
SimonSerenade Posted January 11, 2011 Posted January 11, 2011 That is positive I've been the same lately, Still think about her from time to time but pretty much accepted how it is, Been near enough 6 months since the split, Hurt like nothing I'd ever been through, Even the death of loved one's never quite stung as much, I aim to go on a few dates when I get the time but at the moment I'm concentrating on me and my son, I'll have to talk to her again one day for his sake but for the moment I'm quite happy and content in no contact, I just decided to stop taking the blame and realised I wasted all my time and love on somebody who clearly didn't deserve it.
charly26 Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 Nice encouragemente words. This was my first serious gf, she broke 2 months of NC thinking that we could stilñl be friends. Any deals was made. So the NC started again, and yes, some pain still hurts, but reading your post gave me strengh and the idea that i can find someone else whos better for me
D78 Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 Thanks everyone. I'm sure you know how much your encouraging words mean to us newbies
melenkurion Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 It's 3 months for me, more or less. I guess that means with a little bit of luck. and plenty of working on myself, I might just be half way through the worst of it. I can tell I am better than I was, at least.
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