ecm Posted January 11, 2011 Posted January 11, 2011 Ladies, gentlemen, etc..... You know when people tell you "trust your gut"? You wish you were wrong, you're sad, then you even begin to doubt your instincts?? Yeah....don't (doubt yourself) I've posted a few threads about issues I've been having with my new "friend". I had some weird vibes, even though I felt he was pretty close to perfect. I can't just let things go. (excuse me please if this makes no sense but my detective work has kept me up until 4:44- have to be up in 3 hours-oh well) Anyway, so I google his name. An "untitled" page/site comes up. What??? I have to pay to become a member of this database?? Ok, no prob... one less pair of shoes. Worth it...maybe. So, I wonder as I type in my acct #- What's a "blacklist" website? "Blacklist" from what????? WEEEEELLLLLLLL, as it turns out CALL GIRLS HAVE A WEBSITE TO WARN OTHER CALL GIRLS ABOUT (why the freak can't I make this part a bigger font-lol) BAAAAAAAAAAAD CUSTOMERS. Yep he's on it. Great. So, ladies, men...whatever. When you feel like you're crazy? (Well, sometimes you may be right- haha) YOU MIGHT NOT BE NUTS. You might be right that something is off about the person who threw the L word around so freely. With that, I need to go to bed because my eyes are bleeding. I thought this post might help if you're doubting yourself, or if you delight in other's poor luck (aka mine-wtheck) or you needed a laugh. Night night. pheeeeeew. :mad::mad::lmao:
Leigh 87 Posted January 11, 2011 Posted January 11, 2011 That is hilarious - to google your date or prospective "boyfriend" , only to inadvertently find out that he is on call girl website about their worsts customers! Mind you, perhaps he was just nervous and acted out of character with the call girls hah! Seriously though - I can act like an idiot or b*tch when I am in certain moods, so be careful to judge - unless he truley did do some deplorable things that the call girls have recounted.....
denise_xo Posted January 11, 2011 Posted January 11, 2011 That's pretty hysterical. Guess you dodged a bullet
tinktronik Posted January 11, 2011 Posted January 11, 2011 He's got to be pretty bad to be part of a call girl blacklist. I.E. violent, really aggressive, stalkerish or ran out on the bill. STAY AWAY.
SunsetRed Posted January 11, 2011 Posted January 11, 2011 Oprah often quotes from a book called The Gift of Fear. The quote from the book states that you should always trust the first word that comes to your mind when you meet someone. Sometimes no word will come to your mind immediately, but usually some sort of feeling will. If you meet someone, esp a prospective date and you get a creep/loser vibe on the first date TRUST THAT FEELING!!
daphne Posted January 11, 2011 Posted January 11, 2011 But how do you know it's him? Unless he has a name that is unmistakeable unique and a phone number attached. If it is really him, great detective work! You must educate all of us on these things.
daphne Posted January 11, 2011 Posted January 11, 2011 Oprah often quotes from a book called The Gift of Fear. The quote from the book states that you should always trust the first word that comes to your mind when you meet someone. Sometimes no word will come to your mind immediately, but usually some sort of feeling will. If you meet someone, esp a prospective date and you get a creep/loser vibe on the first date TRUST THAT FEELING!! If I had listened to my gut, I would have unfortunately had very few relationships.
ItsNeverForever Posted January 11, 2011 Posted January 11, 2011 If I had listened to my gut, I would have unfortunately had very few relationships. Yep, me too, Daphne. Though I'm not sure that would have been so unfortunate for me! LOL OP - holy CARP! Yuckyuckyuckyucky!!! God gave women intuition for a reason. I wish we'd use it more often!!! Good thing you did. *high-five* I routinely check out any new "friends" that I'm seriously interested in. I don't see it as a bad thing at all! Just looking out for myself.
Author ecm Posted January 11, 2011 Author Posted January 11, 2011 well, there were a few things that set me off (I've posted if you care to read about the mess that is my life- ha). We've been talking about 3 months. One time I called and he was clearly on the other line (funny beep). He tried to deny it. No reason to lie,so that's a biggie. Here are the details for you detectives in training. He's a doctor. Published, etc, blah blah kiss my butt. So, he told me to google him once. Interesting/ impressive/ so I did. Fine. Then the weird stuf started happening. Soooo, last night pms set in and I decide to take a trip to google land. I'd seen the "untitled" page before but never even looked bc I thought he was perfect. So, it had his 1st and last name, type of doc, location, etc. THE BAD THING WAS THAT HE ASKED FOR "BBFS" which apparently is bare back full service. ARE YOU KIDDING ME???? From an escort??? Does anyone know? Would an escort evn DO that???? So, I go to an "escort" website in his city- dearch what I know is his type and cross refernce the pics with his friend list. Yep, sure enough-there's a match. And her friend list is all men. And her profile on the "escort" site has an email. So, I looked it up. And one of those friends is also on her fb friends. Gotta run to a dr appt (where I will be asking her to dump bleach all over my hoo hoo). More details later if anyone needs help busting their "perfect" bf! And guys want to know why girls are "detectives". My Mom made me PINKY SWEAR I wouldn't say anything YET. So disgusted. And sad. I wanna comment about the other posts too> I will later Gag. gag. gag. gag. gag. Should I post his picture? LOL
daphne Posted January 11, 2011 Posted January 11, 2011 I routinely check out any new "friends" that I'm seriously interested in. I don't see it as a bad thing at all! Just looking out for myself. After my last ex, I fully intend to check out a new prospect before things get serious. I hate to be cynical but there are a lot of liars out there. Including my ex...
daphne Posted January 11, 2011 Posted January 11, 2011 Gotta run to a dr appt (where I will be asking her to dump bleach all over my hoo hoo). More details later if anyone needs help busting their "perfect" bf! You're going to need that done again in 6 months, sweetpea. And guys want to know why girls are "detectives". Yes, this never fails to amaze me. Men know how many men will lie and do creepy stuff like this. Yet we're paranoid for not being trusting...
O'Malley Posted January 11, 2011 Posted January 11, 2011 So, he told me to google him once. Apparently he didn't comprehend that he would get the 'full service' experience of being googled. An acquaintance of mine Dirt Searched a man that had asked her out and discovered that two women had filed orders of protection against him, in separate incidents. Just a good precaution, but not everything is going to come up online.
Art_Critic Posted January 11, 2011 Posted January 11, 2011 and here you just thought he was a bad tipper at places to eat..... hahaha..well.... I guess he is... Have you told him yet ?
ConflictedGuy27 Posted January 11, 2011 Posted January 11, 2011 Should I post his picture? LOL no way. that's asking for the type of trouble you don't want to invite. & I've said it before (and I'll probably say it again), male doctors are the craziest, most womanizing, anything goes sexual pervs out there. my best friend's a surgeon. lol. I had no idea there were so many names for different positions, and he'll have me and the rest of his buddies rolling on the floor as he recounts some crazy as Quagmire type story where he very casually uses these sex terms. we're like... dude! WTF is an eiffel tower?!? Lol buddy doctor's response: "dude, it's like an alaskan fire dragon, only nobody's legs are in the air..." Alaskan fire dragon, angry pirate?!? WTF. lol. doctors, ESPECIALLY surgeons, omg. they've certainly sown some crazy ass oats. least the ones I know.
ReadyforLove Posted January 11, 2011 Posted January 11, 2011 WOW You dodged a bullet! I always tell my friends to google their dates and they look at me like I'm nuts! You need to tell this doctor to google his damn self! He clearly isn't aware that escorts are talking crap about him online
ascendotum Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 OP - nice detective work in going that extra mile to pay for untitled database site. I guess this doc has somewhat of a unique name. I am surprised that this guy ends up on some escort 'bad client' list simply for 'requesting' BBFS. I think its a reckless+stupid request, however I would have thought escorts & hookers get requests for such & such from guys all the time. Wow he asked for sex without a condom...better warn all the other girls in the country to avoid him. If he got violent or abusive when told no then thats a different story. Bet this doc would be pissed if he knew he was on this DB. Would an escort do that service. IDK. I suspect some of the more desperate/reckless would for a hefty extra charge. Whats the disgusting bit...that he used an escort, or that he wanted to have sex with one with no condom? It surprises me how some women (not saying you) associate an escort as a walking syphilis/ gonorrhea factory, yet would have no problems after a few drinks, hoping into the sack for a one nite stand with some good looking chap without a condom, who has slept with scores of women likely under the same circumstances and who only ever goes to a clinic when bad symptoms show, as opposed to an escort who if she was a professional would get regular sex clinic checks and would always insist on condoms.
Untouchable_Fire Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 Yep he's on it. Great. So, ladies, men...whatever. When you feel like you're crazy? (Well, sometimes you may be right- haha) YOU MIGHT NOT BE NUTS. You might be right that something is off about the person who threw the L word around so freely. With that, I need to go to bed because my eyes are bleeding. I thought this post might help if you're doubting yourself, or if you delight in other's poor luck (aka mine-wtheck) or you needed a laugh. Night night. pheeeeeew. :mad::mad::lmao: So... what kind of bad customer is he? The non-payment type? Or something creepy?
ConflictedGuy27 Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 OP, mind checking if Charlie Sheen's on there? I'm pretty sure he was in the news recently for choking a hooker & locking her in the suite's closet. poor hooker...
catgotyourtongue Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 no way. that's asking for the type of trouble you don't want to invite. & I've said it before (and I'll probably say it again), male doctors are the craziest, most womanizing, anything goes sexual pervs out there. my best friend's a surgeon. lol. I had no idea there were so many names for different positions, and he'll have me and the rest of his buddies rolling on the floor as he recounts some crazy as Quagmire type story where he very casually uses these sex terms. we're like... dude! WTF is an eiffel tower?!? Lol buddy doctor's response: "dude, it's like an alaskan fire dragon, only nobody's legs are in the air..." Alaskan fire dragon, angry pirate?!? WTF. lol. doctors, ESPECIALLY surgeons, omg. they've certainly sown some crazy ass oats. least the ones I know. OMG Conflicted. Thanks. I laughed my butt off reading this, "alaskan fire dragon". I was saying to myself WTF. Hey all those years of med school can drive some peeps crazy I guess and they invent all kinds of things. Can't be in the "saving people's lives" business and not be creative, ha ha. Funny stuff. Can't say anyone has ever asked me to do the "fire dragon". Maybe at the circus I could find this act?? lol
catgotyourtongue Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 ECM: I google and research everyone I go out with. If they tell me they are a teacher in x county, I do a search. If they say they are X in the government, I look it up. I sometimes find things on people, nothing bad but things to either back up what they say, or not. Even basic things: You bet your sweet tushy I am going to be a detective, I don't trust people based on "trust me", that's a weak argument. I don't toss my dates into a window-less room with a microphone and put them through trial, lol, but I do my homework. HECK YES. YOU BET I DO. too many people lie, embellish, state half truths, etc. YOU have to earn my trust, sorry. ALSO, one thing to keep in mind, can't believe everything you read, you could come across someone with an ex with an ax to grind, or come across someone with same name, etc. BUT yes, do your homework and use your intuition. better luck next time. SO what are you going to do about it?? With your new knowledge?
ConflictedGuy27 Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 (edited) OMG Conflicted. Thanks. I laughed my butt off reading this, "alaskan fire dragon". I was saying to myself WTF. Hey all those years of med school can drive some peeps crazy I guess and they invent all kinds of things. Can't be in the "saving people's lives" business and not be creative, ha ha. Funny stuff. Can't say anyone has ever asked me to do the "fire dragon". Maybe at the circus I could find this act?? lol lmfao, that's the thing, it's unspoken! they won't reveal to you that the crazy sh*t they're trying to do with you is referred to as an "angry pirate", they'll just do it or suggest it subtlety. now then, ive thought about this countless times -- is he effing lying?! there's just no way he could get a woman to actually go there. but it's true. I know a girl that he pulled off a "Mexican avalanche" with... apparently, doctors clean up. it's true they have very limited lives outside of work but there are no shortage of gold diggin' hunnies in socal willing to do what it takes to bag what they perceive as a "well off" guy. they all do this. they either target these women & get wacky or pay for it. I'd suspect the ratio varies from person to person. funny part is, my buddy isn't bringing home any super salary either. lol. but yeah, it's how they go through medschool. they're hazed like they were back in college, only without the physical punishment. it's been described to me as a boys club so I think a lot of those crazy ass tendencies come from there. Edited January 12, 2011 by ConflictedGuy27
catgotyourtongue Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 lmfao, that's the thing, it's unspoken! they won't reveal to you that the crazy sh*t they're trying to do with you is referred to as an "angry pirate", they'll just do it or suggest it subtlety. now then, ive thought about this countless times -- is he effing lying?! there's just no way he could get a woman to actually go there. but it's true. I know a girl that he pulled off a "Mexican avalanche" with... apparently, doctors clean up. it's true they have very limited lives outside of work but there are no shortage of gold diggin' hunnies in socal willing to do what it takes to bag what they perceive as a "well off" guy. they all do this. they either target these women & get wacky or pay for it. I'd suspect the ratio varies from person to person. funny part is, my buddy isn't bringing home any super salary either. lol. but yeah, it's how they go through medschool. they're hazed like they were back in college, only without the physical punishment. it's been described to me as a boys club so I think a lot of those crazy ass tendencies come from there. LMAO even more. It sounds like cocktails: Bartender, I will have a "mexican avalanche" with a twist of lime, and for my friend, she would like the "angry pirate-on the rocks", ha ha. While I don't consider myself a prude by any standards, far from it, I also don't have an arsenal of hat tricks I can pull out of my bag with slick names on em'. lol. Then again, you never know. Maybe I have been elbows and knee deep in a mexican avalache and just didn't know that's what it was called in the "medical world" tee hee. Guess I need to start dating doctors to "mexican spice" up my sex life. ARRGGGGG MATEY, my eye patch needs a mending too. thanks for the laugh. I have a friend who is married to a doctor, so I will ask her for some insider secrets. OOOH I love LOVESHACK.:love:
irc333 Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 (edited) How do you even know it's the SAME guy? Could be a lot of guys with the same name. Also, how did you find out his full name to Google him? Also, I'm unsure why you paid to be on a "call girl" site? Did you know it was a call girls site before you joined. You left out A LOT of information in this post that leads me to believe you just are judging guy based on nothing more than likely, and you wasted 3 hours of your life you could've spent on something else productive. Ladies, gentlemen, etc..... You know when people tell you "trust your gut"? You wish you were wrong, you're sad, then you even begin to doubt your instincts?? Yeah....don't (doubt yourself) I've posted a few threads about issues I've been having with my new "friend". I had some weird vibes, even though I felt he was pretty close to perfect. I can't just let things go. (excuse me please if this makes no sense but my detective work has kept me up until 4:44- have to be up in 3 hours-oh well) Anyway, so I google his name. An "untitled" page/site comes up. What??? I have to pay to become a member of this database?? Ok, no prob... one less pair of shoes. Worth it...maybe. So, I wonder as I type in my acct #- What's a "blacklist" website? "Blacklist" from what????? WEEEEELLLLLLLL, as it turns out CALL GIRLS HAVE A WEBSITE TO WARN OTHER CALL GIRLS ABOUT (why the freak can't I make this part a bigger font-lol) BAAAAAAAAAAAD CUSTOMERS. Yep he's on it. Great. So, ladies, men...whatever. When you feel like you're crazy? (Well, sometimes you may be right- haha) YOU MIGHT NOT BE NUTS. You might be right that something is off about the person who threw the L word around so freely. With that, I need to go to bed because my eyes are bleeding. I thought this post might help if you're doubting yourself, or if you delight in other's poor luck (aka mine-wtheck) or you needed a laugh. Night night. pheeeeeew. :mad::mad::lmao: Edited January 12, 2011 by irc333
Author ecm Posted January 12, 2011 Author Posted January 12, 2011 I definitely don't believe everything I read. It seemed like it had a lot of info, so I wonder if it were an "angry ex". I'm not really skeeved about the paying for sex thing, honestly. If it's true, it supposedly happened when he was with his serious girlfriend of 5 years. and if it's true that means he lied to me abot never cheating on her until. AND HONESTLY, I'd MUCH rather a guys cheat with a "hooker"/ just for sex than with someone he cared about, you know? So, I'm not bad mouthing escorts or anything, I've just never been in any sort of situation like this. UNTOUCHABLE- he was on there for wanting to do it without protection ascendotm- I agree it's not really the strangest request in the world. I'm thinking about telling him bc i'd want to know if my name were out there like that. catgotyortongue: what to do? what to do??(with this newfound knowledge). I am DYING to tell him. We've not been talking as much anyway, so it's not that tough. I want to sneak it in there sometime. Like someone suggested, tell him he should google himself. Art Critin- any sggestions of how to tell him? Thats all for now. Still dying from sleeping 3 hours. THis is nuts. Thanks everyone
irc333 Posted January 12, 2011 Posted January 12, 2011 Woops, didnt read the whole posts....I would think there's a little something OFF about a guy that would ASK you to Google him..wierd.
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