sueshe Posted January 11, 2011 Posted January 11, 2011 My ex and I have had an off an on again relationship, three times to be exact, for the past three years. We finally ended it, forever, a year ago. However, during the year since we last split she has been checking my friends blog pretty regularly. Side note: My friend is a girl (I'm male) whom my ex was very jealous of and her jealousy is a lot of the reason we broke up, so it's bizar that she would check her blog to begin with other then she knows that my friend will mention me every so often in the blog. Anyway, my ex recently contacted me around the holidays via email and text cuz she said she was lonely and kinda sorta mentioned some guy she had been dating awhile back which i guess deepened her lonliness, so we got together. We ended up being intimate/affectionate/snugglng/kissing but she didn't allow us to go all the way as she feared she would have mixed emotions afterward but I ended up staying the night and most of the next day with her. We talked a little bit a couple of days later and I suggested that maybe we meet again which she replied that it probably wouldn't be a good idea as we would probably get intimate again but needed a couple of days to consider it. During the time we were in communication she stopped checking my friends blog but now that we're not actively talking again she has resumed checking my friends blog twice a day every day since new years eve. So, I'm confused. Why then, if she contacted me but doesn't want to see me again, does she check my friends blog so obsessively? I mean, twice a day everyday?! What's her deal? any and all input will be much appreciated.
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