Vickstar Posted January 10, 2011 Posted January 10, 2011 ex bf dumped me 3 months ago and just this minute found out from my friend that on facebook hes tagged in pics with this girl holding hands and he has his hand on her leg. Feel like complete **** to be honest, but i can finally move on as i kept thinking he will come back but now he wont i will move on a lot easier hopefully. What can i say, i treated him like a king, im quite an attractive girl but obviously there was something he didnt like about the relationship, alot of people think im too good for him, i really hope one day that he regrets what he has lost but i wont care and i'll already be in a relationship with a loving man who will treat me nice. Sorry for the rant, needed to share this, btw i love this site, really helps you through the hard times and everyone is so helpful and nice
marqueemoon4 Posted January 10, 2011 Posted January 10, 2011 You're going to hear this alot----- NO CONTACT going forward. Keep your chin up, you'll be fine. It's his loss.
Leandro Posted January 10, 2011 Posted January 10, 2011 i'll already be in a relationship with a loving man who will treat me nice. That's right . It's your ex's loss. You're way too good for him .
poorguy Posted January 10, 2011 Posted January 10, 2011 You gave him what you could Vickstar...Time to let her just try and fill your shoes...NC will save the day one day at a time
deadhead88 Posted January 10, 2011 Posted January 10, 2011 (edited) I too found out my ex gf has a new guy. It hurts even more because we we broke up because she was moving once she graduates this year and said that she still loved me and that was not the reason for the breakup. She also said if she was going to be with anyone it would be me but she's moving. Now she has this new guy or fling before she moves. Who knows what's really going on? But anyways NC is what you must do now. My ex texted me something meaningless the other day and I just ignored it. She must not realize I know what's going on yet. This anger and intense pain i feel for her lying about the breakup and having this new guy just gives me more motivation to ignore her attempts at contact and finally move on. It gave me closure. I no exactly what you are feeling. It's really painful seeing the one you love do the things you used to do with someone else. I too treated this girl like a queen and did whatever i could to make her happy, (Even excepting her choice to move away because she wasn't "happy here.") It's horrible to think what makes this guy so much better. Edited January 10, 2011 by deadhead88
SincereOnlineGuy Posted January 13, 2011 Posted January 13, 2011 ex bf dumped me 3 months ago and just this minute found out from my friend that on facebook hes tagged in pics with this girl holding hands and he has his hand on her leg. Feel like complete **** to be honest, but i can finally move on as i kept thinking he will come back but now he wont i will move on a lot easier hopefully. What can i say, i treated him like a king, im quite an attractive girl but obviously there was something he didnt like about the relationship, alot of people think im too good for him, i really hope one day that he regrets what he has lost but i wont care and i'll already be in a relationship with a loving man who will treat me nice. Sorry for the rant, needed to share this, btw i love this site, really helps you through the hard times and everyone is so helpful and nice You do have the right stance, understanding, and outlook... but of course you need the next few months to go by in a flash, just to make it easier. It is extra difficult to let go of the 'investment' you made in him, and that is more unique to you than it is to him the individual. Give yourself credit for having made that investment, and let yourself hurt for it seeming to be not worth very much anymore. Then strive to move on and thrive...
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