swfc_77 Posted January 10, 2011 Posted January 10, 2011 me and my ex dont talk anymore, i get the odd text from her but ignore everything. i get the impression from her text she is trying to find reason in her mind to hate me and blame me for things that never happened. these things dont matter anymore, we are over, we both know this and have done the second chance early 2010 and it failed. i dont hate her, hurt her or even care about her anymore. we are not friends as we dont really like each other and that was the downfall of the relationship, i am happy with this situation. but to text me stupid messages, trying to blame me and make me out to be a bad person, when i'v done nothing wrong apart from move on and work on me i dont understand. im not hurting, im not unhappy im just wondering why she does this? cheers, swfc
strangeways Posted January 10, 2011 Posted January 10, 2011 Alright mate. Sounds like you're doing good. F**k knows what she's playing at. Maybe trying to shift blame, worried that you're moving on and not giving her any attention. Probably just annoyed. As long as it's not getting to you, don't spend any time trying to work it out. She probably doesn't know why she's doing it either. When you off to pastures new?
Author swfc_77 Posted January 10, 2011 Author Posted January 10, 2011 yeah im doing ok, i just sometimes skip and wonder. im at the point i wish i'd never met her, it would have saved a lot of heartache. the lessons i'v learnt were not worth the time/effort/money/love that i put in. if you know what i mean. im still waiting on a move but i fractured a rib this morning, so im in limbo at the minute. regarding her, i sigh and feel the energy drain out of me when i see she has text and i kind of know its her before i even look. dont know why, i just do. how you doin matey?
strangeways Posted January 11, 2011 Posted January 11, 2011 Shame about the ribs. Doing much better though Christmas and new year were a bit of a downer. Feeling much more positive this year but have my moments when I still feel sad about the whole thing. Doesn't really hurt anymore though. just realised today that I was supposed to be going skiing with the ex and her family next week! Luckily I only paid the deposit. Saved myself a few quid.
ResetReality Posted January 11, 2011 Posted January 11, 2011 seems like she wants a reaction from you, hang in there buddy, you seem to have the right sort of logic, youve reminded me about skiing, this time last year i was at Decathlon getting some skiing gear, no doubt this yr she will be skiing with her new partner, but hey, im in the same mind set as you, difference is, this bitch doesnt contact me at all, and tbh, i glad, cant be dealing with her BS, look after yourself mate!
Author swfc_77 Posted January 11, 2011 Author Posted January 11, 2011 yeah, it just gets me down a bit sometimes knowing that she will always try and use me for emotional/ego support i really wish she would move on to somebody else and actually look forward to the day when she is planning a life with some1 else. i do still hold a torch for the girl but by no means would i consider getting back with her or even friendship. i was quite lonely before i met her, craved the love of a good women but overall i was happy and needed no-one and no-one needed me. i answered to nobody, how i long for those feelings now, lol. night all, swfc
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