pinkjett Posted March 19, 2004 Posted March 19, 2004 hi, ok so tomorrow is my birthday, and i have plans with the boy that i referred to in my post from yesterday (see, 'rug pulled out from under me')... basically, my issue is that we haven't seen each other in a few weeks, and i have no idea where i stand with him since he's been kind of pulling away.the last discussion we had about 'us' ended kind of vaguely about whether we are friends or more than that.i'm already bracing myself for him not holding my hand, or basically not acting romantic, but my question is, do i act like that's ok in order to be strong and not to show that it's killing me? do i myself act like 'hmm...perhaps you may not be able to have ME?'. i hate to play games, but i sometimes feel that perhaps a guy needs to feel like they are losing something in order to figure out if they indeed want it. i just feel like he's been calling all the shots lately and for once i don't want my reactions to be predictable. if any guy is out there, please tell me the truth, is a little hard to get better than true feelings on a platter? and how do i act tomorrow??? i know he's probably nervous too, and i just want to have a good time, but i'd be lying if i said i don't have any hopes of romance.
NEONINK Posted March 20, 2004 Posted March 20, 2004 Put more bait in the water. With more bait you are bound to catch more fish. Then if he's the one that takes the bait, great. If a bigger fish comes along, wonderful. That keeps you busy.
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