joel Posted January 10, 2011 Posted January 10, 2011 dont you hate it when you get the run around with girls. an example. i met this girl at metrotown mall and later called her 3 days after to ask her out for coffee and she tells me shes busy and has to go to friend b day party, next week shes free, called again and samething-she has to study. what do you do when a girl gives you the run around and delays it and has no intention of even meeting u up for a coffee date. what can i do to cut it so i dont waste so much time calling and finding out shes busy again , and cant meet again and again. -getting the run around
pookster72 Posted January 10, 2011 Posted January 10, 2011 sounds like they're not interested (as you suspect) but enjoy the attention. if they give you an excuse the first time without setting up a different time i'd leave the ball in their court rather than chasing.
brokenglass Posted January 10, 2011 Posted January 10, 2011 There's no sure fire way to know whether or not a woman is going to give you the runaround. The only thing I can think of is, the type of women you're pursuing. That's not meant to sound prejudiced or anything of the sort but I personally don't go try to get dates from super extremely hot women at the gym or the grocery store or the mall or anything because the mentality of most of those types of women is superficial. They want to see your Ferrari and then they will definitely remember when you call and will want to see you VERY soon. I personally don't let it bother me. But I build up a list of people and/or other girls I can go to, activities, etc., when I get blown off like that to prevent me from dwelling on the rejection and getting angry about it. The only thing you can definitively do is to keep trying. If you're waiting 3 days and being respectful of their "plans" and then calling again when they say their available, only to be met with more runaround, you're doing everything correctly. But after that 2nd blow off, do what I do, delete the number and forget their names. It always amuses me when I get messages from numbers months later asking me how I am and I can happily go "who the hell is this?"
ivalm Posted January 10, 2011 Posted January 10, 2011 dont you hate it when you get the run around with girls. an example. i met this girl at metrotown mall and later called her 3 days after to ask her out for coffee and she tells me shes busy and has to go to friend b day party, next week shes free, called again and samething-she has to study. what do you do when a girl gives you the run around and delays it and has no intention of even meeting u up for a coffee date. what can i do to cut it so i dont waste so much time calling and finding out shes busy again , and cant meet again and again. -getting the run around If a girl refuses the first (or second) date I would ask her to reschedule on the spot and if she didn't I'd tell her to call me if she wants to go out and not reach out to her ever again. If she is interested, it'll happen, if not, then you'd get a runaround even if you did pursue.
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