mr heartbroken Posted January 10, 2011 Posted January 10, 2011 Hey, My story is the same as most. The girl i loved told me that she didn't love me. Thats about the crucks of it. If you want to know my story then read my past post's. The reason i'm back on this....... I am still nowhere near over my "EX". I still think about her everyday. I have dated and slept with other females. Some of them have been amazing. They have made me smile, laugh and we had a good time, For whatever reason i found a reason to end. I would find a fault in them. I know that i shouldn't and that there faults make them the person they are. I just want to be moved on and into a new rs. I have had plenty chances to get into a rs.. Like i said i find a fault and get out it. Weird!!!!! you're thoughts are welcome.
Biker2007 Posted January 10, 2011 Posted January 10, 2011 Mr. H., I was in a similar situation as you, so I believe I understand a little how you are feeling. I had an amazing connection with the X (#1) that brought me to LS. After it ended, I could not get her out of my head (or heart). I also allowed that lingering thought of her to sabotage an even better relationship with my latest X (#2). I moved on pretty well from #2 for the first 6 months then I realized what that lingering feeling was about X #1...false hope. I do NC pretty well as I rarely contact an X after a break up occurs. But I was fooling myself. I had some hope that #1 would come back to me. I would not even want her back as she was very narcissistic person. So, now I kick myself as I also let this false feeling of hope make it too easy for me to walk away from #2. When I walked away from her over a small misunderstanding, I lost so much more than I originally realized. Do you think you are clinging to a false hope that the girl you loved from 2 yrs ago will magically come back? If she did, would you even want her back?
health Posted January 10, 2011 Posted January 10, 2011 Hey, My story is the same as most. The girl i loved told me that she didn't love me. Thats about the crucks of it. If you want to know my story then read my past post's. The reason i'm back on this....... I am still nowhere near over my "EX". I still think about her everyday. I have dated and slept with other females. Some of them have been amazing. They have made me smile, laugh and we had a good time, For whatever reason i found a reason to end. I would find a fault in them. I know that i shouldn't and that there faults make them the person they are. I just want to be moved on and into a new rs. I have had plenty chances to get into a rs.. Like i said i find a fault and get out it. Weird!!!!! you're thoughts are welcome. You're not alone. It's been two years since my break up - we were together for over 5 years. I dated 3 girls since - it went wrong for one reason or another. The goal this year is to stop talking about it, stop looking at her fb and move on. It's challenging. I understand you.
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