BlindRage Posted January 9, 2011 Posted January 9, 2011 So I've done some major improvement since I last posted my own thread. I've gone NC for 4 days now(which is A LOT to me). Today, I was so over whelmed with sadness over our relationship and how she's happy with another and doesn't miss me. I dwelled into the hole that has become my heart and called her. She didn't answer. In-fact the reason she didn't answer is because the calls went straight to voicemail, so, either her phone was off or she blocked private calls permanently. I miss her and wish she would want me. I'm not going to be calling her today at all anymore. I'm venting some advice would be good though.
mgene15 Posted January 9, 2011 Posted January 9, 2011 bro.. Just please please please, I can't stress this enough,Do yourself a favor Go NC and stay there... All's your doing is hurting yourself...Anytime you get to day 3 or 4 or whatever day u really feel antsy... give your phone to someone..and go out an do something..keep yourself busy..it's the down time that kills us the most..all you can do is fight it on the early days...jus do it..for yourself...look this is the reality...I have been through this already... listen... "nothing you say or do is gonna make her come back, it will only push her farther and farther away, give her time to miss u (an by time i mean atleast a cppl months) then.. and IF then she misses you and wan't you back she will be calling you...she will not forget about you trust me...as hard as it may seems to beleive that..you were once apart of her life she will not forget about you..if she does not call u back..then it wasn't meant to be..as simple as that...continue to write on here...alot of times when I think about my ex I log on...right now your in hell i no.. iu was there a few months ago.. and God it was awful.. and I'm not gonna sugarcoat it and say right now is terrific, but it's alot better than the beginning stages. You will get through it you just need some self control...Hide your phone.. do something... waiting for her to call also is torment.my ex blocked me on her phone when we broke up in september because I kept calling and texting because I wanted her back....keep your head up bro.. you'll be ok
Author BlindRage Posted January 9, 2011 Author Posted January 9, 2011 Thanks mgene, We broke up about 5-6 months ago but I kept on trying to have contact with her since then but she ended up hating me. She said she never wants to hear from me(I also said some really bad things about her and the person she's with now). It hurts like hell though that I got replaced after so much "love" we had. I know NC is the best and I'm glad her phone was off. I still count today as NC because since she had her phone off she doesn't know I called. Bet she's having fun with that piece-o-crap.
stopthemadness Posted January 10, 2011 Posted January 10, 2011 Thanks mgene, We broke up about 5-6 months ago but I kept on trying to have contact with her since then but she ended up hating me. She said she never wants to hear from me(I also said some really bad things about her and the person she's with now). It hurts like hell though that I got replaced after so much "love" we had. I know NC is the best and I'm glad her phone was off. I still count today as NC because since she had her phone off she doesn't know I called. Bet she's having fun with that piece-o-crap. I know its hard but try not to call names or think bad thoughts.When you think of her send her Love and Light and forget about it. I know sounds easy but its not, I know.. Iam slowly repainting my whole house just to keep busy.(but its fun). Ive been following your posts BlindRage you hang in there it gets better I promise. Weve all been there. You are not alone. Iam so very sure that we will ALL one day love again....
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