JackTorrance Posted January 9, 2011 Posted January 9, 2011 I usually hang out on the "player" kind of forums, but this girl is different and the sort of relationship I want is different, and so the advice I was receiving on SoSuave etc was a little off base and I came here: I really like this girl but she's in a relationship, I think I have potential to go out with her once they split up. She only loves one guy at a time so she doesn't like me as more than friends right now, but she told me she might feel differently about me if she was single, and that she used to like me a bit, before she fell for this other guy that is. She's a friend so we keep in contact anyway. How can I maximise my chances with her for when she becomes available? Thanks for your advice guys/girls
mo mo Posted January 9, 2011 Posted January 9, 2011 You go on "player" forums and you are hung up on this situation? Really? The advice they gave you was probably spot on.
Author JackTorrance Posted January 9, 2011 Author Posted January 9, 2011 You go on "player" forums and you are hung up on this situation? Really? The advice they gave you was probably spot on. No as I am interested in a real relationship, not a quick ****. Plus she is a decent girl, not the typical type of girl targeted at clubs etc.
mo mo Posted January 9, 2011 Posted January 9, 2011 No as I am interested in a real relationship, not a quick ****. Plus she is a decent girl, not the typical type of girl targeted at clubs etc. I believe you. That isn't the issue though. A player, or any experienced man will tell you that this situation really doesn't look good for you. She said that stuff but she is still with her bf. Believe me, if she really meant it she would have dumped him already.
carhill Posted January 9, 2011 Posted January 9, 2011 I've liked a lot of ladies who've had boyfriends or husbands. In my area/demographic, it's inevitable. Don't believe a word they say. Seriously. She knows how to find you when she's single. Women aren't idiots and they certainly aren't shy when they know a guy for sure is attracted to them. Date other ladies.
Author JackTorrance Posted January 9, 2011 Author Posted January 9, 2011 I believe you. That isn't the issue though. A player, or any experienced man will tell you that this situation really doesn't look good for you. She said that stuff but she is still with her bf. Believe me, if she really meant it she would have dumped him already. Thanks for the advice I understand what you are saying... I am glad she didn't leave him though, what would that say about her! Actually no, the reality is, she doesn't like any guys apart from her boyfriend right now (she is like that, she doesn't feel attracted to multiple guys), so right now we are just friends. However, she used to like me so I am sure I have potential. I want it so when they inevitably split up and she starts liking other guys again, she's mine.
mo mo Posted January 10, 2011 Posted January 10, 2011 Thanks for the advice I understand what you are saying... I am glad she didn't leave him though, what would that say about her! Actually no, the reality is, she doesn't like any guys apart from her boyfriend right now (she is like that, she doesn't feel attracted to multiple guys), so right now we are just friends. However, she used to like me so I am sure I have potential. I want it so when they inevitably split up and she starts liking other guys again, she's mine. do u realize how pathetic u sound??? go meet other women, for your own sake. even if it isn't serious
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