lovesparis Posted January 9, 2011 Posted January 9, 2011 i've been dating a guy and really, really liked him. though that feeling was mutual-- he called me every night before bed. he invited me out. he called/emailed often to see what i was doing/if i wanted to get together. went home for the holidays, so we spent considerable time apart. spent the first 4 days i was home with each other (at his suggestion)... and today, the 5th day, i get dumped. b/c he slept with his ex-wife. last night. woke up with me, went to bed with her. wtf? *sigh* i feel ridiculous. used. thrown under the bus. at the same time, i just want to work through this with him. i know that is stupid. i told him when he figures out what he wants, and if i'm it, then he should call. why did i say that? i don't want to be with someone who thinks it's ok to just sleep with their ex.... even if i understand having those unfinished feelings. why do i think the next guy is always going to be better/different? i'm so over this dating sh*t. i feel like crap today, and i'm starting back to school tomorrow so focusing on my reading isn't happening. i know almost no one here, i have no real friends in this city... the friends i do have are all in school with me, so none of us has any real time to do stuff. it's not you, it's me... i should just get a tattoo on my forehead that says "damaged"
YellowShark Posted January 9, 2011 Posted January 9, 2011 I should just get a tattoo on my forehead that says "damaged" 1) Don't get a tattoo on your forehead.. no respectable company will ever hire you! 2) He is using you and his EX wife to feed off of. Don't compete with her. It's either her or you. End of story. Have some self esteem! 3) "Never make someone a priority who only sees you as an option." Write that down, stick it on the fridge, and make it your mantra. Good luck!
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