remy1981 Posted January 9, 2011 Posted January 9, 2011 Why is that a most Men allow woman to have an overwhelming influence on our lifes? I'm not talking about Woman the flesh-blood creatures but the Woman that seem larger than life the once who inhabit our imagination, inform our emotions and indirectly give us shape to many of actions. I'm a success Man set my own career course been to graduate school and now I'm in search for that special woman. I've become so engage on finding the a woman and my desire to please her as gotten me nothing but hurt time and time again. I have this blank unfulfillment when it comes to woman and I end up giving up my power to unsure she is happy in turn creating a world of misery for myself. The more unhappy she becomes the harder I try to make things work, I work at communication, sex, and everything else until I become self-obsessed. I've allowed the woman in my life to drive my desires to become successful and prove that I'm successful and worthy of love and affection but get can't seem to maintain a fulling relationship. I've come to relize that Men make history and woman provide emotional support, men dominant and woman yield. I know real men don't depend on woman real men stand alone. Something I've come to realize but have had a struggle in doing so because I like many Men on here have been raised without my father insight to show me how to be man and I'm sure I was more of a Man to my mother than my father ever was. I was always there for her in turn, my past makes me believe I eventually give up my power on being a Man to a woman that I think might might worthy in turn making the relationship make a turn for the worst. I've come to learn that I must break free from woman for a while, and get some sort of initiation to becoming the Man that all woman want and desire. My guess the majority of Men never break free of Woman because the divorce rates are so high and it seems all men want nothing but to please a woman. We put our own feelings aside in order to please her, we make her the star and orbit around her, we lose our manhood, we become victims to our own sexual desires. Think about it "Masturbating, Pornography is easily available, Music videos, and woman dressing to attract that man it's open season and there ready to be taken away by a real man but we fail time and time again. We are trying to control, avoid, conquer, or demean woman because we are so vulnerable to their mysterious power over us. It's woman in our heads more, than woman in our beds that cause us problems. But if you ask any man if ever wants to be a woman I almost a sure you he will say No. Why is that we give up our sense of control and power? I think deep down we feel we can't compete against a creature who can give birth to a new life and bare our children, men from the dawn of time have reacted by creating, inventing, manufacturing, and trying to prove we are worthy or procreating. Woman creates life, Men create corporations that is why men must learn to be the stronger of species and show that we can manage our families in hardship and We must prove that we can leave a legacy for our family and children. I've come to conclusion that I must learn to break free of the power of woman and learn the true meaning of being Man. What are your thoughts about manhood?
january2011 Posted January 9, 2011 Posted January 9, 2011 I've come to learn that I must break free from woman for a while, and get some sort of initiation to becoming the Man that all woman want and desire. Does this not strike you as contradictory? I will leave it to others who are more skilled at analysing the rest of the points you've made.
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