She defriended me from FB a while back. Should I defriened her friends also?

[suddendumpee]

So my ex defended me and all of my friends weeks ago to cover that she was in a relationship with a guy she SWORE was not a threat.

 

Here's the problem. I made a lot of great friends in her home town who are truly great people. They never wronged me in any way, and there were signs that they disapproved of the way my ex was handling our relationship. They were always in my corner (her room ate was one of them).

 

I'm now torn with the decision of removing all of those people from my life permanently. They are all in a different state, but I do go there for work from time to time and would like to see them again.

 

So do I remove them all and truly "become a ghost"?

 

or do I keep them KNOWING that my ex has the ability to log in to her roomates FB to stalk my page (while I have ZERO access to hers).

 

My thought it that access to my page can help show my ex that I am moving on with my life...then again, maybe the mystery is better? I'm even contemplating just suspending my account for some time.

[GreenPolicy]

Block your ex so she can't see anything you do on facebook and keep these mutual friends, since as you said they are great people and had nothing to do with this. Block the roommate as well to remove that ability to see your page. Otherwise, keep everybody else.

[lostanddazed]

Not for nothing man... but just forget anything having to with her. I deleted all the pictures of my ex... told her to delete all mine off her Facebook. And gave her one final piece of my mind.. I feel great so far.. I know all this dignity talk.. but i have something called pride.. and someone does something fowl and cruel.. my pride tells me call them out on their bull**** and have a release.. I put her emails straight to spam have a new phone number... and screw that witch. I'm doing NC now because I want to.. and i know my ex.. she is feeling pretty ****ty right now especially since i let her know it was one of her friends that told me..

 

I know she will contact me again which is why i changed any and every form of contact she had with me. And if she calls my new work number... hello police.. restraining order.

I'm done with women for a little while.. not sure if i can trust again after the last 5 years