Has anyone ever asked an ex that went MIA why?

[colliejoanie]

How did it go? Or would you never do it?

 

I'm mad that because he just STOPPED CALLING nearly three weeks ago, I keep thinking he will. I've been on dates and I think, No, M will call soon and tell me how sorry he is and give me some grand reason why I should forgive him and I will and we'll get married and have beautiful babies and grow old together;), so I can't go out with this guy again.

 

I keep thinking he's going to remember that I had court and he'll call to see how it went. I think, "oh, my favorite team is playing in the playoffs, he'll text me and congratulate me on their prowess".

 

Guess what....he doesn't. He hasn't.

 

I hate this saying because I never really knew what it felt like.....but....

 

I NEED CLOSURE!! So, should I ask him why the heck he left me hanging????

 

How did it go for you???

[Hopeful30]

Well its pretty self explanatory.

 

Either they found someone else, or they are mad at you for what you did and decided to cut all contact.

[Emilia]

my last ex sort of went MIA on me. we had a chat after an 8-month break, he wanted to get serious and get back together, I wanted to get back together as well but not seriously (at least not initially)

 

he just went quiet on me one day, I would have liked light contact but he didn't want anything to do with me. however, I knew why so I didn't have to ask the reason.

 

I never had a guy go quiet on me for no reason, you must guess why he has gone MIA.

[colliejoanie]

Well, of course there's a long, involved back story. It was a roller coaster four month relationship. And I have of course posted endlessly about this bad relationship....And people will think I'm an idiot for even caring.....but the thing is that I do care....and it's my life so I get to:).

 

So, just wondering if anyone had done it. Or should I just leave it be and wait out this period of wondering.......