Author Chitowngirl Posted January 15, 2011 Author Posted January 15, 2011 Oh, wow. Those two sets of boobs do not belong to the same person... Her profile says "Former model now plus size, seeks love." 15 pounds does not make someone "plus size," so I'm really confused. Actually, they do. I was 137 in my profile pic, about 155 in my avatar pic.
Author Chitowngirl Posted January 15, 2011 Author Posted January 15, 2011 Ehhh guys are so gullible. 1. Boobs in the avatar are NOT DDs. I am the same height as the OP and wear an E cup and my boobs are smaller than that. 2. Pic in the profile and pic in the avatar are not the same person. 15lbs doesn't make you grow 5 cups sizes. Please 3. I am pretty sure that this OP is a troll. What do you get out of men complimenting pictures of 2 other women? Seriously? wrong on all counts.
Author Chitowngirl Posted January 15, 2011 Author Posted January 15, 2011 To answer the last question first, yes you can find love at your size. However, if you feel unattractive that might come across in body language, or how confident you seem, or even how you dress, which could (unfortunately) make some guys less attracted to you which could lead to reinforcing your feeling. For your dream to come true, it might help if you were happy with being who you are and the size that you are. Don't assume that being larger than you used to be equates with being less attractive than you used to be, but if losing some of the weight you recently put on is what will make you happy (and if it's possible to lose the weight - be realistic about goals and timescales) then give it a try. thank you...
Author Chitowngirl Posted January 15, 2011 Author Posted January 15, 2011 I was also thinking she was trolling, or at least looking for attention. She says she's a grad student, but can't even spell masturbation correctly. She was pretty inconsistent in another thread as well. I also assumed the pics were of her, and that she is presenting it as her. Oh god...."can't even spell masturbation." Sorry, I was too lazy to use spell check, and it's rare for me to type the word masturbation, or even read it. Get off your soap box and tear something else apart to make yourself feel better.
Author Chitowngirl Posted January 15, 2011 Author Posted January 15, 2011 I assumed it was an old pic from when she was a size 6, but I'm not a sizing expert! I was a size 4/6 in that pic.
Mad Max Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 Someone has to be so vain to think that 5'9 160 lbs is fat. Its not fat. Depends on body build and gender. Remember, women typically carry more fat than men. A 5'9" 160 man isn't the same as a 5'9" 160 woman.
TouchedByViolet Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 Your thread doesn't add up for me. Maybe you are going for the top 5% of guys, who are looking for a thinner women. When a more average guy says you are cute you dismiss it and don't count the compliment.
BobSacamento Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 I was also thinking she was trolling, or at least looking for attention. She says she's a grad student, but can't even spell masturbation correctly. She was pretty inconsistent in another thread as well. I also assumed the pics were of her, and that she is presenting it as her. Good work Columbo...another case closed.
Kamille Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 Depends on body build and gender. Remember, women typically carry more fat than men. A 5'9" 160 man isn't the same as a 5'9" 160 woman. And let's not forget we all have proof the OP carries a good chunk of that fat in her chest! I found a site that distinguished between men and women, and even then, the OP was still at a healthy BMI.
Author Chitowngirl Posted January 15, 2011 Author Posted January 15, 2011 Your thread doesn't add up for me. Maybe you are going for the top 5% of guys, who are looking for a thinner women. When a more average guy says you are cute you dismiss it and don't count the compliment. Wrong. How would you come to the conclusion that I dismiss compliments from men who are not in the top 5% of men?
TouchedByViolet Posted January 15, 2011 Posted January 15, 2011 Wrong. How would you come to the conclusion that I dismiss compliments from men who are not in the top 5% of men? Based on your height, weight, and breast size I would expect men to approach you. Either trying to flirt or giving compliments.
oaks Posted January 16, 2011 Posted January 16, 2011 thank you... You're welcome! Now quit worrying about your weight and go and get yourself a nice guy.
Els Posted January 16, 2011 Posted January 16, 2011 Depends on body build and gender. Remember, women typically carry more fat than men. A 5'9" 160 man isn't the same as a 5'9" 160 woman. The ideal body fat composition for women is much higher than for men, to account for this difference.
TarnishedInequity Posted January 16, 2011 Posted January 16, 2011 Based on your height, weight, and breast size I would expect men to approach you. Either trying to flirt or giving compliments. I have to agree with TBV... I'm a big girl (in the 200lb.+ range) and I get men that hit on me all the time... my weight is distributed rather nicely on my body and I do have boobs and butt (that were there before my weight gain!). I have a guy who can't get enough of me... I think you're fine and maybe you need to look at a different setting for men. If men aren't hitting on you, or at least checking you out, they are blind, homosexual, or simply into another type of woman.
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